WP4046 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 I had my second date with my new girl. The last one ended on a bad noted and this one did as well. For this date, we went on a double date. The other couple was friends with the girl I was dating. I was really nervous because I have never been on a double date. I had it mind that I was going to be judged and it turns out I was right. I headed on with the thought that just to have fun and see what happens. I pick up my date and she looks pretty and we go to town to meet up the other couple. I wished I had met them before and not on my second date. Anyone once the date was on I felt relaxed. We meet the other other couple and I find out they've been dating for almost 8 months. Here I am on our second date. The other couple kept asking me questions and I could tell the my date was having her friend ask me questions that she didn't want to ask. For the most part, I mostly was joking around and wasn't serious with my answers. The date ends and I'm bit angry and frustrated. We have this long talk. She said she needed the advice of her friend to help her make a decision. She tells me that she is currently dating 4 other guys. I happen to be the newest. I told there her that to consider me out of the running but I didn't feel like competing. She wants to me me on Monday but don't think I have anything left to talk about. I feel like I wasted too much time. She said she was single. Anyone have any experiences similar? Why would you stop seeing her? Just view her as a PLAYMATE while you looking for someone else who is not stupid enough to tell you they are dating 4 other guys
WP4046 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Shes a woman......you arent allowed to bring logic into the discussion! Some women actually "use" another guy or two to validate their feelings for the one they like. They like Jim.....but they still meet one or two other guys to show themselves how much more fun they have when they spend time with Jim. Dismissing her and questioning your interest in her could very well cause her to desire you even more. Your post makes me want to stop dating 1
StanMusial Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 She sounds like a confusing mess. Luckily you are only two dates in. "Thanks, but I don't see this going anywhere. Bye."
OhThatGirl Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Your post makes me want to stop dating Luckily it's fairly untrue. I don't know anyone that does this. Have options in case one doesn't work out? Have some dating variety? Use time effectively to compare how well a couple guys could meet my needs as a partner? Sure. But to use a guy I don't have fun with just to emphasize the fun I DO have with my top priority? No. That's ridiculous. I don't need a bad time to show me what a good time is.
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