lukeissunny Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 everything seemed to be going well. here's wat has happened this week so far monday-everything went well, she even mentioned something about seeing herself marrying me tuesday-had dinner and it went well wed-had minimal contact thursday-spent the whole day together, had a minor fuss about a co-worker guy of hers friday- had minimal contact due to work for both of us. she called me that night to tell em she went to a female strip club with her two girlfriends. i didnt act upset because i wasnt, but she may have thought i was. then she saw me walking out of work and honked and i waved today(Saturday) i have texted her 3 times and no reply at all. no contact at all... im thinking for some reason she ended it
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 everything seemed to be going well. here's wat has happened this week so far monday-everything went well, she even mentioned something about seeing herself marrying me tuesday-had dinner and it went well wed-had minimal contact thursday-spent the whole day together, had a minor fuss about a co-worker guy of hers friday- had minimal contact due to work for both of us. she called me that night to tell em she went to a female strip club with her two girlfriends. i didnt act upset because i wasnt, but she may have thought i was. then she saw me walking out of work and honked and i waved today(Saturday) i have texted her 3 times and no reply at all. no contact at all... im thinking for some reason she ended it I'm thinking your jumping the gun... Wait for her to contact you, anything could have happened too her. She could have been in an accident, had a family emergency, dropped her phone down the loo, good poisoning, sleeping? Don't jump to this conclusion just yet, I was broken up with via silence. Compare 6 weeks of solid silence with 1 day... It certainly doesn't mean you are dumped xx
Author lukeissunny Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 ps she had plans to be with her friend today al day i forgot to include
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Yep definitely wouldn't get worried... Calm down and don't assume you've been dumped just because you've not heard from her. Keep calm
lovemadness Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 i dont see why she would have ended it? monday she discussed marriage with you. yea you had a dispute but that happens. she is just busy man
somegoodman Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 everything seemed to be going well. here's wat has happened this week so far monday-everything went well, she even mentioned something about seeing herself marrying me tuesday-had dinner and it went well wed-had minimal contact thursday-spent the whole day together, had a minor fuss about a co-worker guy of hers friday- had minimal contact due to work for both of us. she called me that night to tell em she went to a female strip club with her two girlfriends. i didnt act upset because i wasnt, but she may have thought i was. then she saw me walking out of work and honked and i waved today(Saturday) i have texted her 3 times and no reply at all. no contact at all... im thinking for some reason she ended it One thing I've noticed from my experience is that women will always sweeten up on you and discuss your "future" juuust before they dump you, probably to make you feel the sting more. I would be very cautious, doesn't sound good.
Kopite Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Complete overreaction. Seems like you are quite the clingy type. Try to work on that buddy.
Author lukeissunny Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Complete overreaction. Seems like you are quite the clingy type. Try to work on that buddy. its just weird not hearing from her
somegoodman Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 its just weird not hearing from her You're not overreacting, you're right to be concerned. However what you must do is the opposite of what you feel like doing. Do not contact her. Wait her out. When she starts sending you messages, do not respond and wait her out some more. Don't respond until you come back here and report what she has said and I will help you with the next steps. 1
deathandtaxes Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 How often do you two normally text each other or talk to each other between seeing each other? If you normally text and would expect to receive a text from her on a day like today, then I say that's a big flag. It takes no time at all to respond to a text if it's somebody you want to respond to. Not responding to a text sends a message all on it's own. Are you sure she went out with her girlfriends on Friday? Are you sure she's out with her friend today? A sudden change in communication habits can indicate that she's pulling back from you.
Author lukeissunny Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 She called me last night because she saw me driving and she said I could come over tomorrow night. So i guess its good
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 She called me last night because she saw me driving and she said I could come over tomorrow night. So i guess its good Told you so ;-)
Happy01 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Um ... I don't mean to be rude, but ... you seem a little intense. Breathe, my friend, just breathe. Everything's ok!
Author lukeissunny Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Told you so ;-) Thanks I was just a bit worried lol. Especially when we had our fuss about her co worker
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Thanks I was just a bit worried lol. Especially when we had our fuss about her co worker I just like saying I told you so for a good reason. People have spats... If we didn't we wouldn't have make up sex or be human!! Doesn't mean there is an impending break up. Remember that mr
Author lukeissunny Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 Yeah she texted me today told me she loved me and we set up a date for Wednesday
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