toonormal Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 How do you show interest in a woman and make it obvious that you are interested? I work with a girl that I like. I want her to pick up on the fact that I'm in to her without coming out and hitting on her since we work together.. I think girls can usually pick up on these things pretty easily, but I want to be absolutely certain without being a creep... Is that even possible? ... and if so will she ever make the first move?
Moe'sTavern Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 How do you show interest in a woman and make it obvious that you are interested? I work with a girl that I like. I want her to pick up on the fact that I'm in to her without coming out and hitting on her since we work together.. I think girls can usually pick up on these things pretty easily, but I want to be absolutely certain without being a creep... Is that even possible? ... and if so will she ever make the first move? Since your clearly into her, why would you wait for her to make the first move? Her being absolutely certain that your into her may not mean much since she may not be into you.
Grumpybutfun Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 Has someone accused you of being creepy or imagining attraction where there is none before? You seem tentative....either you are guarding your heart because you have been hurt or because you have misread attraction signs in the past. G
preraph Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 You do jeopardize your job when you hit on women at work, even in a subtle way, so I wouldn't do it. Generally, women will be friendly and smiley while talking to you if they like you and just generally be more lighthearted. If that happens, then you can be extra nice back, but I'm telling you everyone in the office will pick up on it and that will usually make you both some enemies. And always remember that people at work HAVE to act like they like you whether they do or not, and there are a lot of them who are really good at faking it and people think they are really their friend when they are not. Like if you left tomorrow, you might be surprised how few kept up with you. So be very careful flirting at work. 1
Author toonormal Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Has someone accused you of being creepy or imagining attraction where there is none before? You seem tentative....either you are guarding your heart because you have been hurt or because you have misread attraction signs in the past. G I have misread signs in the past.. but I'm mostly concerned with this being my career and not screwing it up over a crush.
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