NatB Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 my ex broke up with m back in august he said that I was never to contact him again so I left it at that then out of the blue on the 8th dec he started to contact me again asking how I was. I didnt know why Ive been having more contact with my ex he has been IM me. we have kept the chats light and I have been very nice too him so that he felt comfortable talking to me. none of us mention the break up and its really strange we are talking like nothings happened. I never let him sense how upset I am I never let him know. when I get off the computer I have a cry. I dont know where the IM are leading too. Because when he broke up with me in august he told me that he wanted nothing more to do with me. he didnt want me as a friend or as a girlfriend so I tried to move on and never contacted him than just out of the blue he sent a email asking how I was. I dont understand it after all that he said to me he acted like nothing had happened. since then we have had little chats online and I thought that something was coming off it and I was hoping that he was missing me. I know I shouldnt be snooping but i know he spends alot of time on ebay if you know the members name you can see their feedback and what they have bought online I was just interested and I noticed that he had purchased some photographs of someone else's girlfriend. as you can imagine it broke my heart again I know we are not together but I thought that we were making progress. I never thought my ex was that type of guy hes 33 and I thought that he was more mature than that it got me thinking that he might have been cheating on me when we were together. im 24 and hes 33 and I was his first girlfriend I love him so much Im now scared that if we did get back together that I woulndt be able to trust him. I hate feeling this way because i always thought he was a decent bloke. I just dont understand why he contacted me if he doesnt want anything more. I had my graduation yesterday and he asked about that and he said he would like a photo please help me Im so upset by all this
haywood Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 don't think too much into it. who knows, he might just want to be friends. would you be ok with that? maybe this, maybe that. you've been doing just fine without him. if it bothers you that he makes contact then tell him that you're not ready. my advice is to take it slow. you're still attached to this guy. figure out what you want and work from there. good luck
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