why would someone?

[sly_fly1]

just curious. this happend to me before. one of my exes broke my heart along time ago. then she came back. i was happy. i tried everything to make it work. i forgave her quickly n acted like nothing happend. i read her texts with her and her sister. she was telling her to keep secrets n she was seeing another guy.

 

i took my stuff n never talked to her again.

 

just curious because i never got closier. why do you think someone would try so hard to get you back just to play you like a fool again.

 

i mean we loved eachother alot. n then she just changed. n hurt me bad.

 

why are some people like this.

[Strength in Healing]

I think a lot of people are like this. My ex tried playing me too until I caught on. They're like this out of insecurity.

[soLoveIS]

I think a lot of people are like this. My ex tried playing me too until I caught on. They're like this out of insecurity.

 

I totally agree about "insecurity". This Person I dated and hung out with, I later discovered that his Style is to date 2 or more at the same time and YET, still asked to see me and hung out with me. See what I did was stayed only Friends this is how I checked him out. And realized he was insecure that is why he did what he did. Their way of keeping their Hurt at Bay, Safe Zone. When really they are actually preventing a good love to enter their life. When I dated another, he wanted me more, he eventually realized what he lost, a good thing. Nope I moved on,, saving my heart for a true love which I have found.

 

Don't take it hard, it is THEM and "NOT YOU". It's their way of doing things to prevent themselves from getting hurt. When really they are stopping love. You deserve true love. Just check a person out before you give your heart. Don't listen to much to words, watch behaviors and actions to what you like and want. If they show they want to make you happy, you got a good possibility of a person that is more into YOU, than them self.