dropofwind Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 I met this guy at a small party, from the beginning he started talking to me and dancing with me, very close after a while. Later that night we were outside alone and we talked for a while until he asked me if I was a good kisser, I said maybe and he kissed me. Afterward we spent about an hour standing very close kissing every once in a while and he was whispering in my ear the whole time when other people where around. He told me many things, also that he thinks he is falling in love with my face. He gave me his number because as he showed me his batterie had died and made me promise with a kiss that I would contact him. The next day I texted him, we had the usual small conversation of how are you how is your day etc. That night I texted, if what he said he actually meant and he made a big point of saying yes of course! last night he picked me up after work spontaniously and we went to a little bar. He said hello with a hug when we got out of the car. We talked for a total of 3 hours, he asked alot about my interests and my life and when I asked talked about him and his hobbys and such. I wanted to lean in to kiss him the whole time but even though he was keeping eye contact with me the whole time, I was just too scared to make him feel uncomfortable! After all we did not kiss or anything, he drove me home and said I shall come around to his house to watch some movies which we had talked about, next week. I have a TOTAL crush on him, when I meet him I turn kind of stupid and can't remember anything about myself it is redicioules! Do you think he just wants to be friends? Should I just go for it and lean in for a kiss and see what happens?
Conners Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 "Come over and watch a movie" We all know what that means. No I don't think he wants to be "friends" I doubt he wants a relationship I'm certain he wants to get into your pants. 2
OhThatGirl Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 ^^^^^ This!! A thousand times over. "I'm falling in love with your face?" Asked if you were a good kisser? Made out with him at a party? Invited you over to "watch a movie?" I'm going to assume you're young. This guy is looking for sex. If he wanted to date you he would have asked you to a proper dinner or something, not to his house. Don't go to his place unless you are 1) prepared to sleep with him and 2) can deal with the fact he may disappear once he has done so. Look around this forum at the "I thought he was really into me, but he pumped and dumped!" posts. It's alarming. If you're not looking to be a casual hookup you'll draw some lines and demand to be romanced and courted like a lady. It will go one of two ways... He's going to do so, or he's going to drop you. If he drops you, it's because he was looking to score and not to hold your hand when your dog dies. Got it?
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