faithfully Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 Hey guys, PLEASE THIS IS NOT A POST TO GLOTE OR SHOW OFF- FAR FROM IT. I'VE come back to update and let you know anybody hurting out there, there is really hope and I hope my post will show that. BEFORE I START, JUST A BIG BIG BIG THANK YOU THAT THOSE WHO TOOK TIME AND PATIENCE TO READ MY CRY FOR HELP. ALL THOSE WHO WERE BRUTALLY HONEST WITH ME. THANK YOU AND I REALLY APPRECIATE IT. just a quick update: was a walking doormat, I was used not appreciated by my ex boyfriend who I was with for a year. read my post if you want to know more details. I did the classic, begged, cried, helped him even though we weren't together hoping we would- BAD BAD MISTAKE. its been 6months now since the break up and 3 months HARDCORE NC. I CHANGED FOR THE BETTER AND WHEN I SAY FOR THE BETTER, BY GOD I MEAN IT. I blamed myself, cried to sleep, didn't eat everything some of you guys have done but I stopped and changed. I hit the gym hard, seen some of my friends ive not seen for a long time due to focusing on 1 person. I learnt a lot by this break up and now 6 months later I can happily say I am grateful for this break up as its kicked me up the back side and I think I needed it sooo bad. during the relationship I lost myself bad, I was blind by this guy who I thought was perfect. LOL. I GOT EXCEPTED IN MY JOB, HAVE 2 HOLIDAYS THIS YEAR PLANNED AND PAID FOR. I HAVE NOW BROUGHT A NEW CAR. I HAVE DROPPED 2 STONE DUE TO EXERCISE AND GOOD DIET. I HAVE BEEN IN HARDCORE NC FOR 3 MONTH, I DONT CHECK UP ON HIM, DAYS AND WEEKS GO WITHOUT ME THINKING OF HIM. I AM SINGLE AND WANT TO REMAIN THAT WAY TILL I AM READY BUT DONT GET ME WRONG I AM HOOKING UP WITH GUYS BUT JUST CASUAL HOOK UP (IT DOES HELP, AM NOT TELLING EVERYONE TO DO THE SAME BUT ITS HELPED ME) I have money now which is all mine and don't have to pay anybodys phone bill, rent, debt or give money to him for petrol. but what am getting at is guys, please believe me when I say this. things does get better a lot better. it may not seen like it now but it really does. I didn't know what NC was till I got on this site and this site has taught me a lot about life relationship and men. I don't think I know it all but I am still learning. life does get better. concentrate on yourselves guys. you are the most important person right now, its not selfish but you do have to think about the most important person which is yourselves. I don't wanna bore anyone with this post but please stay NC it is for you and nobody else. cut the pleading, begging, stalking them, its really not worth it. no1 is worth the hassle. Do I miss him?? HELLL NOO. Do I want him back?? NEVER!!! 1
Strength in Healing Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 Hooking up with random guys? That killed the post to me lol 2
Author faithfully Posted March 15, 2014 Author Posted March 15, 2014 Never said they were random guys just said guys. Well it helped me personally at the time. Not every1 has to hook up with any1. Lol
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