DannyCA Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 (edited) If it counts for anything, I've never been in this situation before. I'm not entirely sure what to do in my situation. I have two girls who I am interested in at work but obviously can not have them both and I have no intentions of trying to "play" them cause that is not my thing at all. I'll go ahead and call the girls L and K. L: She's 22, cute, reserved, just got out of a relationship, apparently been asking about me, and seems like she would be a better person to hang out with in the long run. K: She's 20, really pretty, very flirty, outgoing, gives off the "i just wanna be single and have fun" vibe, and asks when we're going to hang out. I got K's number a little over a week ago but haven't texted her because a few days after I got her number I found out that L was asking about me after she broke up with her ex. Like I said L seems like she would be better to hang out with in the long run since we're the same age and can go to bars, etc. But K seems like she would be a wild ride for how ever long it lasts. I'm not trying to be a d--- or play these girls, as that's not my thing. I just have no interest in a relationship after my ex, so I'm just looking to accomplish my education/personal/work goals and have fun. So out of curiosity, has anyone else been in a situation like this? How did you handle this? I'd really like to hear from both the male and female perspective. Edited March 15, 2014 by DannyCA
Author DannyCA Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 First of all beware of rebound with L. If she just got out a relationship and is suddenly asking about you... just figure out how bad the break up was and go with your gut. You said you've had K's number for a while now but haven't texted/called? She probably thinks you're not interested/weren't planning on using her number/etc. You said she's kind of fun and lighthearted so she probably isn't distraught but you should make a move if you're going to soon. If I were in your shoes I think I go for K Thanks. I think I'll try to find out how bad the break up was and go from there. But honestly if I turn out to be the rebound for L, that wouldn't bother me. Like I said I am not interested in a relationship anyway. It's just that I feel I'm a little limited to doing things if I pursue K because of the age. From what I know and see I feel L would be a better match for me but I guess I'll have to find out a little more before I make my decision
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