Jen_87 Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 My ex husband and I were together for almost 6 years married for 3 of them and he was my best friend.I was never sexually attracted to him and sex was even painful. I tried everything to make it work, saw many doctors but it just wasn't getting any better. I ended up leaving him about a year and a half ago and started dating someone shortly after. My boyfriend and I have been together ever since and are really happy, sex is great and I love him. With all that I still can't stop missing my ex. When will I stop missing him??? It drives me crazy to know I miss someone I left. Is this normal and how do I make it stop?? Please help Thanks
M30USA Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 My ex husband and I were together for almost 6 years married for 3 of them and he was my best friend.I was never sexually attracted to him and sex was even painful. I tried everything to make it work, saw many doctors but it just wasn't getting any better. I ended up leaving him about a year and a half ago and started dating someone shortly after. My boyfriend and I have been together ever since and are really happy, sex is great and I love him. With all that I still can't stop missing my ex. When will I stop missing him??? It drives me crazy to know I miss someone I left. Is this normal and how do I make it stop?? Please help Thanks Why would you marry someone in the first place if you weren't attracted to him?
Author Jen_87 Posted March 15, 2014 Author Posted March 15, 2014 Because he was my best friend, and I said sexually attracted as is sex hurt. I thought he was good looking but the sexual chemistry was not there. I also didn't think sex was important. I thought a good solid friendship foundation was the most important thing. Then we started to try to conceive and I'm not fertile mix that with everything else and it took a turn for the worst.
M30USA Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 Because he was my best friend, and I said sexually attracted as is sex hurt. I thought he was good looking but the sexual chemistry was not there. I also didn't think sex was important. I thought a good solid friendship foundation was the most important thing. Then we started to try to conceive and I'm not fertile mix that with everything else and it took a turn for the worst. It sounds like you're confused about why you even left him. Your reasons have shifted and are unclear.
Mr.Milked Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 (edited) Because he was my best friend, and I said sexually attracted as is sex hurt. I thought he was good looking but the sexual chemistry was not there. I also didn't think sex was important. I thought a good solid friendship foundation was the most important thing. Then we started to try to conceive and I'm not fertile mix that with everything else and it took a turn for the worst. If you never wanted to marry him or be by his side for six years... Why did you do this? It's odd how one minute sex isn't important and the previous comment conveys sexual compatibility as important? Very suspect... Edited March 15, 2014 by Mr.Milked
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