TyrahL Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 I have been with my boyfriend 6 years, and he never tells me he loves me, until I ask him about it....Is that normal??? I think in the last 6 years he has told me 4 times, but I had to bring it up... should i dump him???
Hund1976 Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 I would think that's abnormal. He might have some issues with it. I would try talking to him about it and seeing why he has trouble saying it. He might really love you but not be able to say it for some reason.
poister Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 Hey, weird - there's another thread going on a little similar right now. In that one, I commented on loving non-verbals. That is, does your BF show you that he loves you in ways that don't involve saying so? Does he brush your hair for you, call you just to say hi, cancel on his friends to be with you when you're upset? If so, he probably loves you but is inhibited about saying it. If not, perhaps the love is weak. Either way, perhaps just ask him in a non-confrontational way why he doesn't say it. Depending on his answer and the quality of his other behaviour towards you, you can decided what you want to do then.
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