c0nfused88 Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 What is your biggest regret when it comes to dating and relationships? If you could go back in time and change one thing in your romantic life, what would it be?
Treasa Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 I wouldn't change anything. I learned by dating enough losers. Won't ever be making that mistake again. 1
TheKook Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 Thinking too much, trying to guess the other person's feelings, and letting it make me feel insecure. 4
faithfully Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 Never invest too much on 1 person, saying that now am glad ive learnt and learning. Now i never put all my eggs in 1 basket
Stay Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 Regrets, I don't think you should regret anything.. Bad or good they all affect you in a positive way. Just take it day by day, you really don't know what tomorrow is going to bring you. 1
Titania22 Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 If I was going to regret anything, it would be some of the guys I have hit on, because not only did I get rejected, I lost potential friends that might have led to me meeting someone who was actually interested. Also getting too attached to people too quickly. (but I don't know how to change that.) 2
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 Don't invest so much emotionally in them Not to second guess gut instincts Not to try and guess what they think or feel If all they talk about is sex - they want purely sex not a relationship with sex 1
pickflicker Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 What is your biggest regret when it comes to dating and relationships? If you could go back in time and change one thing in your romantic life, what would it be? Nothing. The enormous error in judgement I made brought me to LS. And I'm glad it did. 1
Woggle Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 Probably nothing because if I didn't learn things the hard way I probably would have never learned.
ShyAndCrazy Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 I regret that I didn't join the wannabe's because I was too "good" for that. I regret I didn't just be a child and party and dance and sing. I regret that I didn't "hook up more often". I regret that I let fears dictate things. I regret that I didn't speak up and say "THATS BULLS***T!!!"
melell Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 I regret that I let fears dictate things. This. But it was a good lesson.
Lernaean_Hydra Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 I don't really have any regrets because the things I've done have all brought me to this point and I feel I've learned from them. So I wouldn't necessarily say I'd change things if I had the chance but I have done things in my past which were, shall we say cringeworthy or at the very least just not good. 1) Trying to force a relationship when either I wasn't really into it, or I could tell the other party wasn't. 2) Being clingy and stalkerish shortly before and for a looooonnng time after a breakup (to be fair, he did take my virginity:o). 3) Trying to convince myself I "loved" someone just because they said they loved me. I'm glad I learned this lesson early because lord knows where I'd be today, but back in the day, if a guy told me he loved me first, my immediate reaction was to convince myself I felt the same. 4) Mistaking sexual attraction/interest for love or romantic interest and getting hurt as a result of this.
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