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Strongly considering giving up on girls

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Els Established Member

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Wow 200 approaches a month. Is there some terrible social affliction with your friend or is he merely rather boring?

 

Dude probably racked that number up by going to a bus stop and asking each girl in turn, "Hey, wanna ****?" :laugh:

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Ryan R. Established Member

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I'd be willing to bet that OP is not particularly successful in any area of his life.

 

Not true. I have a job that is almost impossible to get at entry level and right out of college. I live by myself and have my own place in the Manhattan. I make incredible money. Despite that, this is one area of my life that sucks.

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Wow 200 approaches a month. Is there some terrible social affliction with your friend or is he merely rather boring?

 

No, he's actually a cool guy. He's short and not good-looking though.

 

I'm not saying I agree with his methods. He was also trying to launch a business at this time. Instead, he put most of his time into this. In my opinion, his time would have been better spent doing his business, but to each their own.

Haydn Established Member

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Trying too hard? Maybe?

 

No, he's actually a cool guy. He's short and not good-looking though.

 

I'm not saying I agree with his methods. He was also trying to launch a business at this time. Instead, he put most of his time into this. In my opinion, his time would have been better spent doing his business, but to each their own.

thefooloftheyear Established Member

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Not true. I have a job that is almost impossible to get at entry level and right out of college. I live by myself and have my own place in the Manhattan. I make incredible money. Despite that, this is one area of my life that sucks.

 

Grasshopper...Listen to me..

 

Thats good....just concentrate on your career...Take care of yourself and keep in good shape...Once you hit 30 (or shortly after),when their prom dresses are 10 sizes too small and the last grains of sand are running out of their biological hourglasses, you will be the sexiest motherfcker around...:p

 

TFY

topaMAXX Established Member

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Not really. I have been approached by women in clubs or bars and social/works settings. I have shot plenty down.

 

Based on your avatar, you appear to be tall and good-looking. Most guys do not have these experiences (despite what women on here like to believe).

 

I've also been approached before and I'm very picky with who I pursue. It doesn't mean that I do a ton of rejecting though....nowhere near what the average woman does.

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Grasshopper...Listen to me..

 

Thats good....just concentrate on your career...Take care of yourself and keep in good shape...Once you hit 30 (or shortly after),when their prom dresses are 10 sizes too small and the last grains of sand are running out of their biological hourglasses, you will be the sexiest motherfcker around...:p

 

TFY

 

So your advice to him is to wait until he's 30 so that he could date fat chicks?

 

Hmmmm....

thefooloftheyear Established Member

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So your advice to him is to wait until he's 30 so that he could date fat chicks?

 

Hmmmm....

 

It was a joke...But you missed the point anyway...

 

TFY

topaMAXX Established Member

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It was a joke...But you missed the point anyway...

 

TFY

 

No, I understood your point. I just don't agree.

ltjg45 Established Member

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Not really. I have been approached by women in clubs or bars and social/works settings. I have shot plenty down.

 

Judging from your avatar, if that is really you, I can see why women want to approach you.

 

Not hating you for it or anything but you got an advantage most males would love to have.

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I am considering giving up on girls. It seems to me that no matter what I do or try, I fall flat on my face. I go out with my friends and stuff but it's no good. I just end up being the guy who goes home alone. What really factored into this decision is the fact that I'm 22 and still a virgin. That's late. I made it all throughout my college years without a kiss or anything. I'm sure it has to do with the fact that I'm not attractive. At this point what else could it be. Pretty much everyone I know is better looking than me. I possibly can't see how a girl would be attracted to me.

 

All of the guys I know, they get sex as if it's their job so they wouldn't understand. The most I would hope for is a drunk lay. I dunno. These past couple of weeks have got me so demoralized, I don't foresee myself having sex or a girlfriend.

 

 

Be confident and make a girl laugh, don't be shy because women know when a guy is insecure and that will possibly turn them off. Good luck man.

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Ryan R. Established Member

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He was rude to me. Why should I engage in a proper discussion about this topic when clearly won't believe anything i say anyway?

 

Besides, this is boring. The OP is 22. His best years are ahead of him. If he wants to become bitter and twisted over a few hard knocks, have at it. Life is hard. Get used to it, make the best of a bad situation.

 

I agree that my best years are ahead of me. My career, yes. Other things, I'm not so sure.

pickflicker Established Member

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I agree that my best years are ahead of me. My career, yes. Other things, I'm not so sure.

 

Dating get SO much more fun in your 30s. But you've got to do the grunt work now. :-)

Tayken Established Member

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Dating get SO much more fun in your 30s. But you've got to do the grunt work now. :-)

 

 

Speaking from experience no doubt Madame? :D

 

I didn't realize OP is in his 20s...so much to learn still

thefooloftheyear Established Member

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No, I understood your point. I just don't agree.

 

From your answer you obviously didnt...

RedRobin Established Member

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It's a sign of a declining society when caring less about each other is considered something to strive for.

 

Yep. I totally agree.

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Canucklehead Established Member

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Dude probably racked that number up by going to a bus stop and asking each girl in turn, "Hey, wanna ****?" :laugh:

 

Perhaps, he is the bus driver?!?!

 

Asking each female as they get on board? ;)

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Els Established Member

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Perhaps, he is the bus driver?!?!

 

Asking each female as they get on board? ;)

 

Now that's an idea for a profession that gets to "pick up" the ladies... :laugh:

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Dating get SO much more fun in your 30s. But you've got to do the grunt work now. :-)

 

Why? I mean if it gets so much better in your 30s, why not just wait until you're in you're 30s to bother with it? Just avoid the tough stuff and skip right to the good stuff.

 

In regards to the OP, I haven't met anyone in real life who was a virgin at 22 and managed to turn things around later. I'm not saying 22 is a magic cutoff point, but if you look at the statistics most people who get to their mid 20s as virgins end up staying that way for the rest of their lives. Exceptions exist of course, but they're few and far between.

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Why? I mean if it gets so much better in your 30s, why not just wait until you're in you're 30s to bother with it? Just avoid the tough stuff and skip right to the good stuff.

 

Nothing magically gets better without working at it, IMO.

 

In regards to the OP, I haven't met anyone in real life who was a virgin at 22 and managed to turn things around later. I'm not saying 22 is a magic cutoff point, but if you look at the statistics most people who get to their mid 20s as virgins end up staying that way for the rest of their lives. Exceptions exist of course, but they're few and far between.

 

I know plenty... The majority, in fact. Not all cultures are so desperate to win the get-laid race.

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Why? I mean if it gets so much better in your 30s, why not just wait until you're in you're 30s to bother with it? Just avoid the tough stuff and skip right to the good stuff.

 

In regards to the OP, I haven't met anyone in real life who was a virgin at 22 and managed to turn things around later. I'm not saying 22 is a magic cutoff point, but if you look at the statistics most people who get to their mid 20s as virgins end up staying that way for the rest of their lives. Exceptions exist of course, but they're few and far between.

Way to blow people's hope's xD.

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Nothing magically gets better without working at it, IMO.

 

Well, I wasn't the one who said dating gets better in one's 30s.

 

I know plenty... The majority, in fact. Not all cultures are so desperate to win the get-laid race.

 

Is OP from a different culture? US/Western culture is probably the most relevant to people living in that culture.

 

I mean I live with my parents. In some cultures that's what people do until they get married. Doesn't mean women I'd want to date would be ok with that...

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Why? I mean if it gets so much better in your 30s, why not just wait until you're in you're 30s to bother with it? Just avoid the tough stuff and skip right to the good stuff.

 

In regards to the OP, I haven't met anyone in real life who was a virgin at 22 and managed to turn things around later. I'm not saying 22 is a magic cutoff point, but if you look at the statistics most people who get to their mid 20s as virgins end up staying that way for the rest of their lives. Exceptions exist of course, but they're few and far between.

 

Because dating gets better with practice. Use your 20s to practice.

fortyninethousand322 Established Member

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Because dating gets better with practice. Use your 20s to practice.

 

If you say so. OP can try if he wants, he's got 8 years left in his 20s.

 

My 20s are almost up. It's a little late in the game for me...

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I am 32, i do not consider myself old but some of you guys in your 20`s???? What is going on here? When i was in my 20`s it was a laugh a minute (Sort of)

Look guys i came to LS because i was dumped by what i thought was the `love of my life` . I was wrong. Stop trying so hard for that perfect rs with that perfect woman, one made of breasts probably. Try to enjoy the time a bit more.

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