letgo6 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 sorry for posting this in different thread... my ex left me because she fell inlove with someone else, they are still together. we had a 10-year relationship and they are now on their first year.. i've done NC, text her and after a few days NC again.. I tried to be in her life, thinking that she will come back.. Actually, she dumped me 2x for the same person. and now im doing NC again for a couple of days and doing it seriously..she texts me again saying that she still loves me but also loves her gf (this is a lesbian relationship)..i didnt reply but im sooo confused right now.. i somehow feel that she still love me because she still reach out to me..i just dont understand why she cant leave her gf. does anyone here experience this? its like "i love you but im not inlove with you".. any thoughts?
lvroflife Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 The problem is that in a long term relationship the "in love" feeling will come and go. Some people (your gf) will look at this as it is time to go. Which is send less becomes the feeling comes back with communication. The more you communicate the more it brings closeness to each other and that is what makes two people fall in love. But most people today follow movies and books and think that feeling should last a life time!! 1
Toddbt12y1 Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 Yup. Pretty much a nice way if saying, "let's be friends. " used in easy let downs, when preparing to breakup with someone. There could be truth to it. They or even she could love you, but not be in a romantic type of love. 1
Author letgo6 Posted March 15, 2014 Author Posted March 15, 2014 @toddbt12y1 yeah, i think you're right..she loves me not in a romantic way. i think she just see me now as a friend.
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