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Guy friend asked me what makes me happy but as soon as I am about to tell him he gets distracted with another conversation with his friend.

 

Why bother asking if he's not gonna stick arround for the answer.

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Is this a one-time situation or a pattern?

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Is this a one-time situation or a pattern?

 

Once for that question but he has this habit where I reckon he's afraid of what others think and when he gets really close in both emotionally and physically he dashes off. Either to talk to someone else around or if he was huggy/kissy he does it to others in the room to like throw them off.

 

In private he jokes about wanting to hug and cuddle me

 

We are only friends btw

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So maybe he's just hyperactive or easily distracted?

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So maybe he's just hyperactive or easily distracted?

 

Possible but it's rather odd. Seems to me he wants to be huggy kissy but afraid of what people would say.

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Possible but it's rather odd. Seems to me he wants to be huggy kissy but afraid of what people would say.

 

But you said you're only friends... that hug and kiss. You're in some weird gray limbo area where I don't know if rational analyzation applies.

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But you said you're only friends... that hug and kiss. You're in some weird gray limbo area where I don't know if rational analyzation applies.

 

Does he want something more? He initiates the physical contact and I find lately he comes close then runs away. I can't even talk to him about it bz he will deny it all.

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Does he want something more? He initiates the physical contact and I find lately he comes close then runs away. I can't even talk to him about it bz he will deny it all.

 

Ahhhh.. So you want to be more than friends. But this is a little weird. You are both young? "Kissy" is what..? French kissing, or just kisses on the cheeks?

 

I mean if youre a cute girl and he starts kissing you and then runs away..? Maybe he's super shy and nervous? Maybe he's confused about his sexuality. I need more specific details here lol!

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He has ADHD. Very common.

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