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Not sure how i feel about this. Was thinking about getting serious with this girl and i was trying to judge her looks from an objective POV. After going through her facebook pics i notice that she looks ugly in about half of them. I can't even point out exactly what is making her look ugly but she does. Looks really ugly in some.

 

In others she look average. And in a small amount she looks good.

 

But in person she looks GREAT. Literally can't get over how pretty she is at times and i'm not just being nice. Is this normal? Solutions?

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Not sure how i feel about this. Was thinking about getting serious with this girl and i was trying to judge her looks from an objective POV. After going through her facebook pics i notice that she looks ugly in about half of them. I can't even point out exactly what is making her look ugly but she does. Looks really ugly in some.

 

In others she look average. And in a small amount she looks good.

 

But in person she looks GREAT. Literally can't get over how pretty she is at times and i'm not just being nice. Is this normal? Solutions?

 

Don't look at the bad pictures, who cares how bad she looks in pictures if she's great in real life. She's just not photogenic, no biggie.

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How does she feel about your pics?

 

 

Not sure how i feel about this. Was thinking about getting serious with this girl and i was trying to judge her looks from an objective POV. After going through her facebook pics i notice that she looks ugly in about half of them. I can't even point out exactly what is making her look ugly but she does. Looks really ugly in some.

 

In others she look average. And in a small amount she looks good.

 

But in person she looks GREAT. Literally can't get over how pretty she is at times and i'm not just being nice. Is this normal? Solutions?

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You're not dating her picture. If she looks great in person, why would you care about her pictures?

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How does she feel about your pics?
She thinks i'm a solid 9 in all of them.

 

You're not dating her picture. If she looks great in person, why would you care about her pictures?

Well what about my family/friends that have never seen her in person? They'll only have facebook to judge by.

 

And tbh i think of myself a pretty good looking and i want a girl who can compliment my features. Wanna take pictures with her and have people say "wow they're both great looking"

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She thinks i'm a solid 9 in all of them.

 

 

Well what about my family/friends that have never seen her in person? They'll only have facebook to judge by.

 

And tbh i think of myself a pretty good looking and i want a girl who can compliment my features. Wanna take pictures with her and have people say "wow they're both great looking"

 

Why do you care about what others have to say? If you like her then that's enough.

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Okay I read all your threads you've started and I just have to say WOW.

 

Your girlfriend cheated on you (who was a fat whale), your parents were **** to you about your looks etc etc.

 

Well guess what? you're now applying the same standards to the girl your dating. Don't cha think? Isn't it a bit f**cked that your now treating your GF like the way your parents treated you?

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Well how about you POST up some pictures of yourself so we can tell you Huh?
As you stated in your second post i have posted personal things on this site. Would hate for anyone to know that i used it. But lets just say i know for a fact that i am objectively handsome.

 

And my level of attractiveness really doesn't pertain to the discussion at hand.

 

Okay I read all your threads you've started and I just have to say WOW.

 

Your girlfriend cheated on you (who was a fat whale), your parents were **** to you about your looks etc etc.

 

Well guess what? you're now applying the same standards to the girl your dating. Don't cha think? Isn't it a bit f**cked that your now treating your GF like the way your parents treated you?

I mean okay? I don't think thats messed up. I like her and everything. But yea i am shallow (never claimed i wasn't) and i want people to see us together and feel jealous.
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And my level of attractiveness really doesn't pertain to the discussion at hand.

 

Oh yes it does. In fact, your personality show EVERYONE here that you are not as attractive as you think you are.

 

I mean okay? I don't think that's messed up. I like her and everything. But yea i am shallow (never claimed i wasn't) and i want people to see us together and feel jealous.

 

Yeah. I have a solution for you.

 

Break up with the girl because you are NO GOOD for her. Go find someone who *looks good in every picture* and who is a narcissist like yourself and leave the poor girl alone. You'll do nothing but damage her.

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Not sure how i feel about this. Was thinking about getting serious with this girl and i was trying to judge her looks from an objective POV. After going through her facebook pics i notice that she looks ugly in about half of them. I can't even point out exactly what is making her look ugly but she does. Looks really ugly in some.

 

In others she look average. And in a small amount she looks good.

 

But in person she looks GREAT. Literally can't get over how pretty she is at times and i'm not just being nice. Is this normal? Solutions?

 

 

 

If she looks good in person why does it matter if she looks rubbish in pictures?

 

You can't solve that and yes it's very normal. I don't look crappy in pictures (I think) but I've been told I look better in person and more animated.

 

Who cares if she looks rubbish in pictures...

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But in person she looks GREAT. Literally can't get over how pretty she is at times and i'm not just being nice. Is this normal? Solutions?
Solution? Break up with her. On your list of priorities looking good on FB pictures is way up there on top so ....You'd also do her a huge favor, I am sure she would hate wasting months on you before discovering your level of flakiness.
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She is simply not photogenic. Im not photogenic either.This should not be a problem, unless she wants to be a photoshoot model.

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I guess i'll have to just get over it. Anyone have tips that i can give her to become more photogenic? I'm not exactly a photoshoot model myself but my pics always come out nice. I think maybe her shyness has something to do with it.

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I guess i'll have to just get over it. Anyone have tips that i can give her to become more photogenic? I'm not exactly a photoshoot model myself but my pics always come out nice. I think maybe her shyness has something to do with it.

 

 

Geez there's no tips to give for someone to become more photogenic. Just love the girl for what she is not how she look in pictures.

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Geez there's no tips to give for someone to become more photogenic. Just love the girl for what she is not how she look in pictures.

 

I'll second that. You can't change her or what she does

 

Get over it and love her anyway or find someone who meets your extremely unreasonable demands.

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I guess i'll have to just get over it. Anyone have tips that i can give her to become more photogenic? I'm not exactly a photoshoot model myself but my pics always come out nice. I think maybe her shyness has something to do with it.

 

If I were her, I would not take you seriously after this. And Id be suspicious that you are a creep and you would secretly take photos of me during our private moments (even if thats not the case really).

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If I were her, I would not take you seriously after this. And Id be suspicious that you are a creep and you would secretly take photos of me during our private moments (even if thats not the case really).

 

I think if she knew anything about this she would drop

Him on his ass!!!

 

Way to insult a woman - you look ugly in pictures!!

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Well what about my family/friends that have never seen her in person? They'll only have facebook to judge by.

 

And tbh i think of myself a pretty good looking and i want a girl who can compliment my features. Wanna take pictures with her and have people say "wow they're both great looking"

 

:lmao: Uh, good luck with all your future relationships. You'll need it - lots of it.

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I guess i'll have to just get over it. Anyone have tips that i can give her to become more photogenic? I'm not exactly a photoshoot model myself but my pics always come out nice. I think maybe her shyness has something to do with it.

 

No, the only tip I would give her is to break up with you ASAP and find someone more mature.

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No, the only tip I would give her is to break up with you ASAP and find someone more mature.

 

Even better, you ( op ) should break up with her, because she deserves so much better.

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Geez there's no tips to give for someone to become more photogenic. Just love the girl for what she is not how she look in pictures.
Makes sense but is easier said than done. I shall try. Can't see myself breaking up with her anyway. Every time i see her, her beauty hypnotizes me.

 

Hahahahhahahaha, its the make up!!!!!!!!

 

People need to stop painting their face.

Its deceiving! People think you are beautiful, but next morning when the make up is off

you scar the **** out of the guys!

Loled. Nah she doesn't wear a drop of makeup ever. Only special occasions. Thats how ik she must be really pretty:laugh:.

 

That is true though. Have met a few crater faced beauties in my time.

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No, the only tip I would give her is to break up with you ASAP and find someone more mature.

 

Good thing you don't know her then huh?:p

 

Doubt she would listen to you though. I'm a purrrttyyy decent boyfriend, not to toot my own horn.

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Good thing you don't know her then huh?:p

 

Doubt she would listen to you though. I'm a purrrttyyy decent boyfriend, not to toot my own horn.

 

Yeah, if so invite her to read this thread!:p

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Sometimes pictures don't do people justice. That's just the way it is.

 

Every time i see her, her beauty hypnotizes me.

 

This should be the reality for you. Everything else should fade into the background.

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Yeah, if so invite her to read this thread!:p

 

A decent boyfriend doesn't call his woman ugly in any version, or worry about his friends/families opinions on photos.

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