lukeissunny Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 I don't think the op was wrong. The guy smirking is basically saying that's the guy youare wwith? Ha wow
Author halifax89 Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Its not like I say this all the time. Maybe I was wrong but we live in the same town as him. What if he does this every single time we see him. I'm not going to let myself feel insulted
Canucklehead Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 I agree with this. And, btw, his boxing skills best benefit him if you BOX with him. :-) Yep, your strategic edge is to make it a grappling bout instead of a boxing match. This is not a "gentlemans quarrel", make it a street fight..... Use ju-jitsu/wrestling/gouging then some "ground & pound" then go for the submission after you get him worn down.....
deathandtaxes Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Interesting thread. OP - why is the first thing to come out of your mouth that you want to fight this guy? Who are you trying to impress? How you reacted shows a lot of insecurity. Your lady is with *YOU* now. I guess you forgot that. But if you keep acting like this (and that other post somebody reposted here), you won't be with her for long.
Chalkdust89 Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Its not like I say this all the time. Maybe I was wrong but we live in the same town as him. What if he does this every single time we see him. I'm not going to let myself feel insulted If he does this all the time, then you ignore him, roll your eyes, then laugh with your girlfriend about how he needs to get a life and move on.
Author halifax89 Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 Your right I did overreact but I'm not bringing it up again because she hasn't talked about it
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Let's cut the OP some slack. yes, he overreacted but hopefully he learns from it. Can't just go around fighting people. I can understand his frustration though. The smirk would have annoyed me also.
OhThatGirl Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Its not like I say this all the time. Maybe I was wrong but we live in the same town as him. What if he does this every single time we see him. I'm not going to let myself feel insulted You still don't get it. Stop defending yourself. Your actions were that of someone who is insecure and immature. The fact you feel insulted by something so stupid as a smirk from a random guy says much more about you than the fact he did it to begin with. Stop defending. A good place to start is "I was wrong." Remove the "maybe" and "but" from your sentence, move on, and don't do it again. Seriously, your behavior is going to lose her at some point. If you value this woman and your relationship you really need to get a grip on being a confident and mature man. This insecurity and ego **** is for the birds. 1
Author halifax89 Posted March 16, 2014 Author Posted March 16, 2014 You still don't get it. Stop defending yourself. Your actions were that of someone who is insecure and immature. The fact you feel insulted by something so stupid as a smirk from a random guy says much more about you than the fact he did it to begin with. Stop defending. A good place to start is "I was wrong." Remove the "maybe" and "but" from your sentence, move on, and don't do it again. Seriously, your behavior is going to lose her at some point. If you value this woman and your relationship you really need to get a grip on being a confident and mature man. This insecurity and ego **** is for the birds. Who says Iam aalways like that. I'mnot . I treat her really good
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 Id have just chuckled, then looked at her and said "were u drunk?" lol x
gaius Posted March 16, 2014 Posted March 16, 2014 (edited) I'm sure it sucks she made you wait but hopped right into bed for him but getting your arse kicked won't do much to make you feel better about the situation. Edited March 16, 2014 by gaius
lino Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Sounds like a quality girl Don't blame it on the other bloke, he hasn't done anything wrong. You're right to be upset that she lacked the class to just shrug it off as 'just a guy I f*cked a few times' I'd be having reservations about continuing to be serious with her if I was in this situation. And make no mistakes, if the roles were reversed here, the tone of the responses given would be much different and you'd be seen as an insensitive bastard for exposing your girl to an experience like that. 1
kaylan Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Sounds like a quality girl Don't blame it on the other bloke, he hasn't done anything wrong. You're right to be upset that she lacked the class to just shrug it off as 'just a guy I f*cked a few times' I'd be having reservations about continuing to be serious with her if I was in this situation. And make no mistakes, if the roles were reversed here, the tone of the responses given would be much different and you'd be seen as an insensitive bastard for exposing your girl to an experience like that. This. Exactly. And especially the last part is true.
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