tylerskaggs Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 today me and my girlfriend were at work leaving and she said hi to her co-worker. she mentioned that he had facebook messaged her asking if she saw the schedule. she said she did, and he said "well we work together saturday, we got a date" i looked at her and said "oh really? wy would he say that" she said " don't worry about it, he's a weird guy" shes never talked about him in front of me before and i have never seen anything between them but i wasn't to happy about what he said should i just forget it or keep an eye out?
ja123 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 Just forget it - I'm sure he's not the only guy who has the hots for your GF. If she's only into you, then you've nothing to worry about. However, having co-workers as FB friends is usually not a good idea for anyone. Depending on the nature of her job, it could compromise her professionally, so it's not very smart.
Author tylerskaggs Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 Just forget it - I'm sure he's not the only guy who has the hots for your GF. If she's only into you, then you've nothing to worry about. However, having co-workers as FB friends is usually not a good idea for anyone. Depending on the nature of her job, it could compromise her professionally, so it's not very smart. you are right its just a bit annoying.. like hey back off dude
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 facebook messengering that is basically hitting on her. It would make me uncomfortable too but at the same time there's nothing to really do about it. I dunno if a guy gets a pass because he's "weird" either. Lame diversion. You know if girls don't want to get hit on, they can make it so it doesn't happen
Phantom888 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 Flirting is a two way street. As long as your GF isn't flirting back, then it's not a big deal at all. If you trust your GF, you shouldn't even think anything of it.
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 Flirting is a two way street. As long as your GF isn't flirting back, then it's not a big deal at all. If you trust your GF, you shouldn't even think anything of it. Girls can also set a tone where the flirting will stop also. Some can look at girls allowing it to happen as enjoying the attention. It's kind of a fine line and I'm not sure what's right or wrong but just sayin'..
Gaeta Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 My daughter's work schedule is on FB so yes, co-workers do FB each other to confirm things, etc. *so we got a date* is an expression. I think you are jumping the gun for nothing. 1
Author tylerskaggs Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 yea, I could be overreacting but I just don't feel comfortable him saying that. I mean if a girl sai dthat to me I'm sure my girlfriend would feel the same way
mrs rubble Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 I'm sure he wouldn't have mentioned it (like that) in front of you if there was something happening there. I have a "date" every friday lunchtime with one of my workmates. (another lady mind you) and my partner's been harrassing me for a pic of one of our date's on facebook!
ExpatInItaly Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 My daughter's work schedule is on FB so yes, co-workers do FB each other to confirm things, etc. *so we got a date* is an expression. I think you are jumping the gun for nothing. I think so too. I don't see the big deal here at all.
mattyarnold Posted March 15, 2014 Posted March 15, 2014 they are probably just work friends and he was joking
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