Is it possible for a shy/quiet guy to live with a woman?

[bson1257]

I'm a very shy and quiet guy and I honestly couldn't imagine living with someone, especially a woman. The problem is I wouldn't know what to do most of the time and I would probably appear very dull and boring. I wouldn't know how to interact with a woman on a daily basis. If I was dating a woman and saw her once or twice a week, maybe it wouldn't be too bad, but for her to see me everyday I might run out of things to do or say very quickly. How do you think I could solve this problem?

[Assasda]

Do you have other friends or do you live as a Hermit???

 

I almost dont believe this post. Its like youre trolling.

 

Anyway, you talk about women like they are from a different planet.

 

They take a dump, feel upset, make mistakes, fall down, act like idiots, have hopes and dreams, and some of them are as shy and ridiculous as you.

So Keep that in mind.

 

Also, if you can live with anyone else, at all you can live with a woman

[d0nnivain]

Presumably by the time you start living with someone you are no longer strangers & your shyness will have dissipated.

 

 

You don't have to constantly be "on" or entertaining. Just being there & being yourself will be fine.

 

 

The quietness & the shyness will be more of an obstacle during the getting to know you stage.

[bson1257]

Do you have other friends or do you live as a Hermit???

 

I almost dont believe this post. Its like youre trolling.

 

Anyway, you talk about women like they are from a different planet.

 

They take a dump, feel upset, make mistakes, fall down, act like idiots, have hopes and dreams, and some of them are as shy and ridiculous as you.

So Keep that in mind.

 

Also, if you can live with anyone else, at all you can live with a woman

 

 

I am almost certain I have agoraphobia, so that means I kinda am a hermit.

[Assasda]

I am almost certain I have agoraphobia, so that means I kinda am a hermit.

 

You possible need professional help then

[d0nnivain]

I am almost certain I have agoraphobia, so that means I kinda am a hermit.

 

 

You may have garden variety anxiety.

 

 

Do you shake & get upset by the mere thought of stepping foot outdoors? If it's more that you are worried about interacting with others you may not be a agoraphobic. How do you feel about people coming into your space?

 

 

If you are too nervous to meet new people or leave your house, exactly where do you expect to meet this woman who you are afraid to live with?

[AntiSocal]

If you are moving in with a women you guys tend to get along well. When you get along well with someone all the anxiety goes right out the door and you can just be yourself. Some days you guys will talk all day. Some days you guys will only say ten words to each other. Won't matter as long as you are comfortable and happy in each others presence.

 

Girl who likes you enough to move in with you will like you no matter how much you talk.

[Got it]

I'm a very shy and quiet guy and I honestly couldn't imagine living with someone, especially a woman. The problem is I wouldn't know what to do most of the time and I would probably appear very dull and boring. I wouldn't know how to interact with a woman on a daily basis. If I was dating a woman and saw her once or twice a week, maybe it wouldn't be too bad, but for her to see me everyday I might run out of things to do or say very quickly. How do you think I could solve this problem?

 

Quiet and shy are very different than dull and boring.

 

My ex husband was definitely quiet and shy but was not dull and boring. I am sure there are things you like to do, watch, discuss, etc. When you live with someone you do all those things with them and separately. Just like living with family members you guys do things together as well as do things separately.

 

Trust me, you would find lots of things to discuss. If not, get a dog. Then you can both share chasing after said dog as it runs through the house with dirty paws, both gush over super cute thing that the dog just did, share the million of pics you both take of said pup, walks, middle of the night outings because of pup's upset stomach, vet visits from deciding that "eat first think later" is a good motto for it to follow, etc.

 

Seriously though, it really isn't as overwhelming as you are thinking at this point.

[Caracalla]

Ativan, Xanax, Klonopin, Valium, Alcohol....Just kidding! Please don't take my advice