Mrpositive Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Hi all, Where to start. I have been single for about 10 years. I´m 35 at the moment. I have struggled to find a girl to share my life with. At first I blamed it all on the girls, but then I started to think that it might be me that it was something wrong with. The last couple of years have been though, but now I have decided to take a more scientific approach to dating and make it a project. A project that will reach it´s goal! I´m going to find my girl. In order to commit myself I have decided to make a diary in order to share my experience and maybe also help others! I will continue this thread until I have fond Ms Right:) The first thing I have decided to do is read up on how dating is working in 2014. Last time I was on a date people still walked around believing the earth was flat. Wish me luck!
Assasda Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Good luck man. You just need to be confident. When you see a girl, approach her immediately, so you dont talk yourself out of it. You need to come from a place where, you feel like YOU are doing the girl a favor. She should get to know you, because YOU are cool, and if she doesnt want to get to know you she's missing out. You should also never blame women, thats a big turn around that you made.
Phantom888 Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Best of luck to you brother! It's good to stay positive. For me when I was single, I listed all the traits I wanted in a woman.... beautiful, smart, funny, career-driven, BIG natural boobs, great motherly instincts, commitment minded, independent, educated, well-traveled.... Then I would ONLY approach and date women with most (if not all) of these qualities. I refused to settle for any less. But somehow every woman lacked a couple of key qualities, which made me feel discouraged. One day on Match a woman winked at me, and commented on my photo. She was interested, and I started emailing her. As I got to know her, I realized she's perfect for me. She matched EVERY quality I wanted in a woman, and she felt the same way about me!!! 9 months later, we got engaged. We are both 39 years old. Bottom line: DO NOT settle for less than what you deserve. If you know what kind of woman you want, stick with that standard. It may take time, but well worth the wait.
Author Mrpositive Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 Wow! Thanks for great feedback guys. Lot´s of great advice. Phantom888: You make me believe that it´s never to late to start the search for Ms. Perfect. And I really liked your think about setting up a list of things to look for in a woman. That makes lot´s of sense. Assasda: I totally agree with you, it´s your self you have to work with in order to make change that make a difference.
napy666 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 I am in the same boat, I have yet to find the right guy for me. Every time I do find a guy to my liking they talk to me once or twice then never again. Or the one's to continue to talk to me take months to meet me hahaha.
David87 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 Op i really like your username, it's inspiring. You should know that there's nothing scientific about dating. All you need in those days is confidence and courage to talk to the girl you like, then see how it goes. If she rejects you, no problem move on to the next one, that's how you'll gain experience and at some point you'll find Mrs. Right. Good luck.
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