Phantom888 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 I've been used by women for sex, and it sucked. There was one woman I really liked, and after having sex, she told me she just wanted to **** me, but didn't want to date me. I was really upset, and I just stopped seeing her. I felt really bad because I'm a really good dude to date, but she just wanted me for sex and I was not okay with that. I do not do FWB. No way! There was this other girl who wanted sex on the 1st date, and I said no. She showed me all her tattoos, and tried to entice me with her huge boobs. I told her I wanted to get to know her better before we have sex. She got mad, and outright told me she didn't really like me but just wanted to have sex with me. Before I started OLD, I never knew there were women who just used men for sex. I felt really bad about it. So I can see how OP can feel confused after having sex with this girl twice. It's very counter-intuitive.
Author awman Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 Thanks Phantom. I'm a really good dude to date too! Man, I guess we just have bad luck. I've really giving up on OLD. I've had 2 bad experiences both where the girl just bails after we have good times. Thanks for understanding and relating - makes me feel like I'm not the only one that has suffered from this BS. I should have read the signs but hey you get lost in the moment.
johnson_j Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 don't feel too bad bro, same thing happened to me recently. One day all was perfect, next day was gone. She even begged me to stop seeing other girls. better luck with the next one. I'm also tired of the flakes, once I turned 30 the games become old. If they don't know what they want they should be honest. 1
Author awman Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 Update: she actually text me last night. First saying how what I said to her in the phone convo bothered her. Then stating how she didn't mean to confuse or hurt me. She told me she feels bad and is not the type of person to hurt people or get involved so quickly. I just told her that if she wanted to talk she would have to call me and I wouldn't do this over text. She wasn't able to talk on the phone because she was with people. She said that's all she wanted to say and we left it at that.
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