WisingUp Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 My ex partner and I broke up in june 2013 as the long distance became too much for us to cope with. Also I knew deep down that he wasnt right for me or my children so was really the best thing that could have happened. We both went onto other relationships afterwards but have kept in touch on and off through emails. My problem is i still feel at times that I have now become a little obsessed with how he is moving on while I feel I have stayed a little stuck and havent quite got him out of my system fully yet. He called me last week to tell me that he feels that there is something missing in his new relationship and wanted to know how I was doing in my life. I checked on his new partners facebook and she is totally oblivious and is loving life with him. Has made friends with family and it all looks very settled and cosy. I guess what I am left feeling here is a little jealous as it could be me living that life and why does he think its ok to call me, tell me he is not happy but then all I can see is a different story emerging on facebook. Who is kidding who here? Why did he call me in first place? How do I overcome the jealous feeling? By the way he is 49 and I am 45 so not teens so why cant I start acting like a grown adult and let it all go!!! Please can anyone give me their view on what is going on here that can help me move on further as it is sending me crazy trying to figure it all out and i feel i am too involved to see it clearly and need others input to help me!
Saurren Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 He's using you for emotional support and not taking your needs into consideration. When things are going great for him I bet you won't hear a single message, but when things go bad he brings a whole lot of sad stories. His actions are unfair to his current gf and to you. Drop him before he gets booted for emotional cheating. 1
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