vieillot Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Hello all! I want to share my progress and thank you being supportive. I lurk here since my ex gf dumped me 3 months ago.It was my first long term relationship 4.5 years (ldr)and my very first heart break.I blocked her in all social media sites after a month she dumped me.It was one of the best decisions I've made in my life. I stopped the hope she is going to message me and its helping me to move on. I'm not totally over her but I just miss her friendship and memories.Im not attached to her emotionally anymore. But something happened. After the break up I've become different person.She was insecure in first times in our relationship then I've been like her. I was insecure , shy and extremely introvert. I realized I let her to change my personality. I am not extremely shy person contrary I don't give a f over little things before her.In our relationship the opposite . Fragile , giving lots of fs I wouldn't think over twice before. Now I am healing. I want to involve in events always and I stopped saying "no" to people . I practice trumpet everyday it boosts my confidence. Also planning to hit the gym asap. And thanks for people who always give an advice to others. I read lots of threads of other people and it helped me. I didn't even know NC was a thing.Thank you!! 3
noelaniella Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 It's so positive to hear stories of people coming through the other side in a better place! I am going through a similar situation at the moment. I'm kind of excited to get back the personality I had before!
Author vieillot Posted March 17, 2014 Author Posted March 17, 2014 It's so positive to hear stories of people coming through the other side in a better place! I am going through a similar situation at the moment. I'm kind of excited to get back the personality I had before! Keep it up! It will pass and the biggest lesson is don't let anyone to change yourself.
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