Author veganpilot Posted April 15, 2014 Author Posted April 15, 2014 Curious? LOL. Go back to primary school and get your spelling fixed before even leqrning to criticise me. What is this? An oxymoron? You're telling me that I am conceited, yet, I have a low-self esteem? LOL. I am also not ugly, on the outside that is. I have been told by many people that I am attractive and I actually got a modelling scholarship on top of that. ^^^^
vanellope Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 Please never ever consider to have a relationship with a married person, even you are a very amazing girl or he is very amazing man, in the end your self-esteem and naive will all be destroyed. Time is not worthy to invest in that mess.
Hello_is_it_me Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 Curious? LOL. Go back to primary school and get your spelling fixed before even leqrning to criticise me. What is this? An oxymoron? You're telling me that I am conceited, yet, I have a low-self esteem? LOL. I am also not ugly, on the outside that is. I have been told by many people that I am attractive and I actually got a modelling scholarship on top of that. ^^^^ We're gonna need to see a pic to verify. 2
Cpt Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 lol at "leqrning" while telling me to go back to primary school to fix my spelling. 1
stillafool Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 Immature? I'm 17, and like I said, I have a low EQ. Also, he did imply that vegetarians are airheads. Me, why do I even need him to boost me self esteem? I'm beautiful and incredibly intelligent. Lots of guys and even girls are after me. I don't even know if the girl i'm chasing after is interested, but I'm not interested in the guys that are after me. They keep on saying that I don't notice them, which is true. My expectations are very high for men. The fact that this man in his mid-twenties, handsome, ambitious, determined and with a pH.d in maths is very attractive to me. I'm interested but I think it is inappropriate to act on it. He is married and I don't know if he has children. I'm no homewrecker. I am a SAPIOSEXUAL. Are you a boy or a girl?
jcrew11 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 This is an update. Some things made me suspicious: 1. When I was sick from an exam, I was supposed to retake it by the university rules but he exempt me from it, telling me it's ok and that meant my exam and next test is worth more. 2. My 29 year old friend, who is experienced with men and the sort of person that wouldn't lie, told me ny professor checked me out as I walked into my lecture room, but he didn't do that to anybody. As I was copying the calculus equations from the boardnd looking down to do them, she said he was staring at me the whole time I wasn't looking. She also said that he had so many mistakes when he stared at me, and stuttered as he did the equations on the board. The OP doesn't have any morals if she wants a married professor to cheat on his wife for her. Everyone gets crushes but the OP is making a BIG DEAL out of it. It clearly seems like she WANTS the professor to be sexually attracted to her (perhaps she has low self esteem or seeking validation). Everyone has crushes and its nice to find someone attractive. But there also seems like some "Daddy Issues" where she is seeking validation from an older, smarter married man. She is sexually inexperienced and is looking for a "Fantasy Prince" and wants her "older charming George Clooney fantasy." There's nothing wrong with dating older, wiser divorced guys. But there's something morally wrong and evil when you are enticing a married man to cheat.
littleplanet Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I don't know if my engineering professor is attracted to me. He is MARRIED and in his mid-twenties. But, here are the subtle 'signs': 1. When he talks to me, he tends to be nervous, stutters and talks softly, which is strange since I've observed the way he talks to others. He is confident and loud when he talks to other male/female students. He is also an alpha male. 2. He tends to be short-tempered and 'mean'. However, with me, he is calm, patient and very friendly, although a bit nervous. He smiles at me and laughs a lot. 3. When I asked him about a printing error, he didn't tell me and go reprint it out myself. He told me to stay after class when everyone's gone so he could reprint them all out for me (60+ pages) at his own expenses! 4. He tries to make conversation and when he saw my pencil case, he complimented on how cute it was as well as my bag. I think this is strange because he is usually stern and serious. 5. Today when I came to his office for help in my homework, he seemed surprised and nervous. But he explained everything until I got it and we talked about an hour until class started. What do you think? Well now okeedoke. Let's go back to square one, shall we? I never saw so much flyin' feathers since my last visit to the chickenhouse. Wow! Allow me to summarize: You're 17 and you're pretty smart. And a lot of that is academics. Commendable. (I work in academia - am absolutely pickled in the stuff.) Moving right along: You're also - ahem.......unversed in the majesties and mysteries of romance. That's just fine. This is not a horrible disease, or a lifelong sentence - it is just what it is. Far as I can tell - you began this melodrama by asking a simple (and probably very innocent) question: Why you asked it is not unimportant......to you.....and in the context of the story. It appears that it all began with a perfectly normal, and understandable whisp of whimsy......as inexperienced girls are wont to do - out of a simple curiosity. That a man might possible find you attractive? A man like that? And why wouldn't he? But would he act on it? Probably not. (For divers' reasons already well-stated here!!!) But wait! Would you? The answer to that (as stated by your own sweet self) appears to be just so......in the negative. So there you have it. (Or......it would appear so.) Which is what I kind of figured......until a crapstorm of feathers flew up and blocked the view. Now then. Far as I can tell, yourself being young and inexperienced - you rode into town looking for a bit of wisdom, advice, knowledge in these matters, and a guiding light. Something that could brighten up your day, and maybe explain a thing or two you didn't (or coudn't) quite understand? Meaning no disrespect to all involved: To clarify: Seems the guys in your own age group don't quite seem capable of ringing your bell. That's fine. You set your own standards. For all you know - this MARRIED man.......though (possibly / probably) attracted........might just feel some sort of affection (how old is he?) that is not necessarily of the creepy old man type. You know? That's a possibility. As long as neither of you are chewing sweaty bedsheets in the dead of night fantasizing like crazy over each other..................................... then probably not a whole lot is wrong. People are people. They get notions and ideas. They don't necessarily act on them. If this all plays out nicedly and ends with a good grade, a wink and a nod - no harm has been done. You keep your sanity. He keeps his wife. Everybody's happy. 1
littleplanet Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 oops! missed that one. in his mid-twenties. Now that is awful young. But still.....same old same old.
KaliLove Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Curious? LOL. Go back to primary school and get your spelling fixed before even leqrning to criticise me. What is this? An oxymoron? You're telling me that I am conceited, yet, I have a low-self esteem? LOL. I am also not ugly, on the outside that is. I have been told by many people that I am attractive and I actually got a modelling scholarship on top of that. ^^^^ :laugh::laugh::laugh: Criticizing someone else for their spelling when you yourself make a spelling mistake in the same sentence = awesome.
littleplanet Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Okay everybody. Hold the fort. Sapiosexual. Quick. Don't look it up. Anyone know what it means? (hint) "I really love you for your mind, baby!" Now, how did that get by me? Boy/girl? Anybody really had to ask? My goodness. (gender's on a bender and I'm staking the farm it bats longer eyelashes than mine.) Offering clues and guesses that the OP's first language is not English - and the first 37 guesses don't count. (I could be wrong, but I'm still placing my bet.) Shall we now not cut some slack? Not even for brainy haughtiness? (lacking the naughtiness, I admit....) Sherlock has now left the building. Watson hardly noticed.................
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