sooshi Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 Cade, as I read your original post, I silently applauded you for being honest with yourself. It isn't easy to confront yourself the way you have. I didn't think you were being hard on yourself like some of the others thought; I thought you were just acknowledging what you've done and felt remorseful and wanted to get it out there. I feel like you're getting a lot out of this breakup, and I'm glad you acknowledge that you were extremely selfish. When you said you understood you would hurt her, but didn't care enough to stop my actions, it reminds me of my former fiance who just recently pursued my best friend even though he knew it hurt me and that it could damage my friendship with her (AND the relationship she's in). Keep working on yourself and I do believe that your next relationship will be one where you really are able to treat your partner with utmost respect.
iDrumKing Posted March 17, 2014 Posted March 17, 2014 We all take things for granted. We all make mistakes. We all feel pain. I've read every single post on this thread and you seem like you genuinely feel bad for your actions. Know that it takes guts to own up to your faults. It really does. Not many people these days will step up to the plate and take ownership for their actions. You hurt your ex very badly. No need to rub that in. Whats done is done. You've acknowledged that she is better off. You even admitted that she deserved better. THAT'S GOOD. You're not a crappy person and you deserve a second chance. Not with your ex because I think that story has run it's course, but a second chance at a relationship later on in the future. You deserve a second chance. As said before we all make mistakes. I wouldn't be where I am in life today if I wasn't given 2 chance, Hell maybe 3 or 4.
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