audiojunky Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 Last night I ran into someone I used to know from high school. I always had kind of a crush on her. We talked a bit and at the end of the night before leaving she asked to get my #... using the same reason that I was going to use for her.. she said, "Maybe we can get everyone together and hang out sometime." Anyways, she took my #.. I took hers. Here is the other spin on it.. I'm just out of about a year long relationship no more than a month ago. There is this hesitation I have about even calling someone up or even going out on a date. It isn't that I don't want to.. I just fear it a bit because what if things progressed too quickly? I could probably be jeopardizing the new relationship or I myself might not be ready for it. Any suggestions from the more experienced readers? I would like to get to know this girl more but I want to be careful.
alphamale Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 Originally posted by audiojunky I'm just out of about a year long relationship no more than a month ago. There is this hesitation I have about even calling someone up or even going out on a date. It isn't that I don't want to.. I just fear it a bit because what if things progressed too quickly? hey how u know what will happen? a meteor may come thru your roof tonite and kill you while u sleep in bed.... don't put the cart before the horse man...
whichwayisup Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 hey how u know what will happen? a meteor may come thru your roof tonite and kill you while u sleep in bed.... LMFAO!!! LOL!!!! And if that doesn't happen you could just stub yer toe and concentrate on the pain! lmao! Joking! OK well, I would basically just tell her what you said here. Tell her you like her, how you used to have a huge crush on her but you would like to get to know her as a friend right now as you just got out of a relationship and it just isn't fair to anyone right now to get involved. See how that flies. BUT...You will know when and IF you need to let her know that bit of information. Don't just throw it at her, see how she is next time you both talk. Good luck!!
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted January 26, 2005 Posted January 26, 2005 whichwayisup, i completely agree that this is the best thing for audiojunky to do... audiojunky like myself haven't moved on enough ( or at all in my case! ) to get involved with someone else as we still have feelings or are in love with our exes just be her friend and try and use friendship to get over your pain i met a nice girl at the weekend, told her my story and she still took my number to see if i wanted to go out for a bike ride i only want a bit of friendship and so does she, better than sitting in front of the TV!
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