JonathanAnder Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Hey guys wanted to share my story. Hope you guys will learn something from it. Me and my ex gf of 2 years broke up 5months ago last October 2013. Both deeply loved each other but things started to fall apart. I went No Contact straight away after break up. First few months is damn hard. Can't sleep, Can't eat, Depress everyday stalk her facebook everyday.. November 28 and December 8 she contacts me twice basically just giving breadcrumbs and wanted to be friends.. I Told her I am sorry but I'm not interested being friends with her. She said she understand and she will wait for my message and for the day that we can talk again. I never contact her after that.. till January 2 of 2014.. that day I felt like I am in control of myself and I am ready to talk to her again so I message her.. While we are talking well I risk myself to put myself out there for the last time. Told myself that I can finally move on if she doesn't want to work things out.. Basically I ask her back and she said No and she told me that she is doing good being single and she is so sorry and That I will always be there in her heart. I told her I understand and I respect her decision and I told her the hardest thing that I'll ever do is to walk away and continue moving on. Fast Forward now March of 2014 we never spoke to each other again and I am doing better than ever. I started to love myself again and changed my priorities to ME. I stayed away from social media and start to focus on my real life and financials. yes I do think of my ex sometimes but indifference is there Time heals everything.. I learned that walking away and moving on is the best weapon that you will always have.. I learned that I should not let someone control my life and I should get up and stop feeling sorry for myself.. I started living my life to be happy again and think that I deserve someone who's gonna love me for who I am. I stop blaming myself or my ex for the failed relationship.. I look at it as a learning experience of my life.. I hope everyone learned something from my story. Guys things will do get better if you let it.. Don't let yourself down because all of us deserve better than that.. 10
SoundedPlum Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Happy for you. Congratulations, and I hope to be in your shoes soon!
Highlight888 Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 I can't say I'm not jealous of you. I'm dying for the day when I feel exactly how you feel. Many congrats though. I'm so glad you found your happiness!
LostAlways Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 These kinds of threads help me keep going, thank you so much.
RDawg Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 wise sentiments and very inspiring. wish i could get there soon. 5 months later i feel like dog vomit. 1
Chi townD Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Damn! I'm LOVING these success stories that are coming back on here as of late! 1
jphcbpa Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 NC is the common theme in these threads of recovery.
JohnnyLoverBoy Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 very inspiring! you will find someone better always remember that! also I found that staying away from social media really helps
saltyfishhead666 Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Love love love!!!!! Wrote one myself in December after around 6 months after the break up. I wish there were more around, so people can see how much of a mess you were, and how you are now and see there will be a light at the end of the horrible dark road. Yay for you (I'm highfiving you through my phone) 1
anemptycup Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Congrats man I hope everyone else on here - including myself can move forward and feel better - because it is a waste of time lingering on. 1
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