Xelha Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 I met my boyfriend at a destination wedding one month ago, and things have been moving rather quickly between us. We just feel this incredibly strong compatibility that neither of us has really felt before with other people. We've already talked about things like renting a place together(I have to move out of my current place by June 1st), but both of us are kind of wondering if it's normal to do that so soon. Not because it doesn't feel right, it actually feels really right, but because it feels like if we told other people about it they would think we were crazy. If neither of us thinks it's crazy, is it still crazy? Btw I'm turning 26 soon, and my bf is 28.
BradJacobs Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Does it feel right in both your gut and heart? It doesn't matter what strangers say because we're not you or him. There are no rules to love. I'd counsel my sister to be careful but secretly hope that she found a love and bond so strong that they didn't fear these kind of steps together.
Scott0310 Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 I was stationed in Korea when my wife and I started to date. We dated for about 3 weeks while I was home on leave, went back to Korea for the final 3 months and during that time I asked her to move with me to Italy, which she did. We were friends before we started dating, and only agreed to start dating literally the day before I flew home. So if you want to look at it on a physical level, my GF and I had only dated for 3 weeks before she moved to a different country with me and move in. Now on the flip side, all the time in Korea we cam'ed alot. After I got back there was alot of cam sex stuff going on, but still. Three weeks and she moved in with me lol. So dont think yours is too fast.
ASG Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 My cousin moved in with his GF about 2 weeks after they started dating. They're still together now, about 7 years later, have a daughter and are thinking about getting married, once they have the money for a nice party!
d0nnivain Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 It would be too soon for me, but you're not me. If you are moving in more for financial reasons then love connections, it's doomed. If you can find a 6 month or month to month lease for yourself just to get to know Mr. Wonderful more & go though some bad stuff 1st that would be the more logical approach.
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