jaguar Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 OK I know I have become some sort of a parody. But honestly I need some advice. What can I do to not focus on sex? Because lately I have become so depressed that this has come in the way of work too. And that is a problem because I never had this issue where depression came in the middle of work. How can I not think of my sexual inexperience? I can't help thinking that I am not complete till I lose my virginity. I just want to not focus on it and be casual about things. But I feel sad when I see couples kissing or something like that. I feel like I am not enjoying life or something like that. Hell, I am right now back to college and am not able to concentrate on my studies(which I am doing after a long time) because of these things. Please help me.
Phantom888 Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Go to an escort. It will be a good learning experience and you will stop worrying.
Chubbi Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Can you not find a girl? At my school, we had parties called "Underwear Ball." where ppl came dressed in their undewear ready to grind up on each other. Just go to those parties, find some girl dancing with her friend, attempt to grind on her and then increase it as time goes on. At least ask her her first name. There was also one called red light, green light. Basically, a lot of sex-themed parties. We also had a party called MakeOut, where literally the entire party is you makeout with anyone. Everyone goes to the party so it's pretty much 100 people making out. The president of our class begins with making out with someone, and then we all join in. I made out with 7 people in one night. If it goes smooth, you may can impress a girl enough to get it in. This is why it's best to go to those posh universities because they turn blind eyes to smart rich kids.
warrenorabbits Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 I think you need to see a professional. I'm not saying that insultingly -- I myself am seeing one and they can be a lot of help when you're in over your head. But especially if this issue is interfering with your schoolwork, you need more help than we can give you on this forum. Let me ask you something though: why do you care if you're a virgin or not? Is it because society tells you that you're a geek or somehow "not a man" until you've lost your virginity? If so, then (a) Why do you feel the need to bow down to such idiotic gender roles? and (b) Conveniently, "society" doesn't have to deal with STDs, pregnancy, and the possibility of damaged relationships. You do.
Michael91 Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Find a big girl and marry her. She will give you all you want.
Author jaguar Posted March 13, 2014 Author Posted March 13, 2014 I can't have sex with prostitutes. It has not worked till now. THere just isn't that much time to get aroused. And I don't want that. Sorry, I can't.
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