Is this normal?: :

[Gaby]

Hi all first of all thank you for reading this.

SO first of all im really confused at the moment.

 

here is why;

I met this girl at a party back in late January we hit it off pretty good and have been dating back and forth even went on valentines date and had the rose and everything.

 

we even talked about relationship and that what we're having is going good and she loves every moment of it and that she likes me and finds my sweet, well you know all the stuff you want to hear from a girl you are dating:love:

 

Now here is the tricky part for me.

 

last time i saw her was 3 weeks ago we agreed to meet last thursday but she cancelled due school activities. she said she would definitly still come tho so i asked her out for sunday and she couldnt

 

she texted me that she is sorry is being stupid about it and that she doesnt know what she is doing that she forgot how great it was being around me and all.

 

Then i asked if she still wants to meet she said she ofcourse but when i asked her why dont we meet up then she said i dont know why..

 

Since then i havent texted her or anything.

 

So what would you guys suggest?

[Gaeta]

She is interested in someone else and isn't sure how it will develop. Women (and men) don't go from hot to cold for nothing. Most of the time there is an ex, or someone else in the background.

 

I suggest you wait and start getting interested in someone else. It sucks I know but read around, it's full of people here going through the same thing. People are hot one day and cold the other, you just let them go.

Edited March 12, 2014 by Gaeta

[Gaby]

It sucks, so now im what second choice?

[Gaby]

So should i keep the NC or just text her asking whats up?

[Gaeta]

You should get interested in someone else. She is not interested in you and nothing you do will change that. There is no trick, no magic, no games, plan....when someone doesn't share your level of interest you move to someone else who does.