Gaby25 Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 I have been having trouble trusting my boyfriend. He was constantly hiding his phone, deleting conversation. Once he gave me his fb password i decided to go check and saw a conversation with him and few other girls.. But one bugged me the most the woman said shr wanted to have crazy sex with him and they planning to meet up .. Then he told her how much he wanted her sexy ass.. Thats when i went over board texted him .. We discuss it and he told me it was only flirting .. That he never had the intention to meet up with her or any of it.. That he is just like that .. And now im wondering if he is telling. The truth which i ask him multiple time.. But he makes me feel like im the bad one for going over his **** and his personnal stuff.. I need some advice cause i dont know what to do. I want to work this out.. Is it worth it has someone been in this situation and know how to handle it .. Cause i am getting really sick of over thinking it Gb 1
peruano99 Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 He doesn't sound like a good boyfriend at all, I would suggest having a talk with him, and if he can't stop with the texting, then you should find a better man.
d0nnivain Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Talking that specifically about sex with a specific person is more than casual flirting. It would bother me too much to continue dating him.
stillafool Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 I have been having trouble trusting my boyfriend. He was constantly hiding his phone, deleting conversation. Once he gave me his fb password i decided to go check and saw a conversation with him and few other girls.. But one bugged me the most the woman said shr wanted to have crazy sex with him and they planning to meet up .. Then he told her how much he wanted her sexy ass.. Thats when i went over board texted him .. We discuss it and he told me it was only flirting .. That he never had the intention to meet up with her or any of it.. That he is just like that .. And now im wondering if he is telling. The truth which i ask him multiple time.. But he makes me feel like im the bad one for going over his **** and his personnal stuff.. I need some advice cause i dont know what to do. I want to work this out.. Is it worth it has someone been in this situation and know how to handle it .. Cause i am getting really sick of over thinking it Gb If you believe his lies I have some land in the middle of the Atlantic ocean I would like to sell you. Of course he's lying. He wanted to and would meet that girl for "crazy sex" and any other type of sex she is providing.
Grizzly101 Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 I think talking about specific sex acts us WAY beyond flirting and I am pretty open minded about things. If he is hiding his phone, deleting conversations, he is definitely hiding something. I don't go through my H's phone, wallet or FB (maybe I trust too much). But those are the first places I would go if I had trust issues...you did & well... Sorry to hear
veggirl Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 If he hasn't cheated on you already, I guarantee he will at some point. Why would you put up with that disrespect? NO ONE in a relationship thinks its okay to PLAN MEET UPS for sex with others behind their partners back. NO ONE is so stupid that they think that is simply flirting. Don't be a doormat for this prick.
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