unagedtiger Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 So this lady and I've been dating a few months and she sends me "good morning" and "good night" messages every morning/night. And I return the favor by texting or calling later on. In the beginning, when she doesn't send, it's because, she said the times she doesn't send are because she isn't in the mood. Lately, she's been sick also. She's been steady in sending messages for a month now but today it suddenly stopped. Last message I received was "love" last night. In case she is being distant, shall I still call/text today or shall I just keep cool and stay silent until she initiates a conversation? Thanks.
ja123 Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Stop with the texting. Just call her. She's feeling sick, right? It'd be only natural to check in to see how she's doing.
TheNewMe2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 I know I'm neurotic - but, she's missed one morning - and it's not even noon? I'd relax about it. I agree - if she's not feeling well, and you've been dating awhile...call her. She may feel to sick to text. If you want to text, do that too. I think if it's a regular thing, it isn't bad to see what's going on. Having said that, we all have little gut feelings about things, so if you feel that there's something more to it - tell us. But if she just missed a text, I wouldn't worry about it.
d0nnivain Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 If you never initiate contact at some point she is going to interpret that as a lack of caring. Especially if she isn't feeling well, step up to the plate. 2
ExpatInItaly Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 If you never initiate contact at some point she is going to interpret that as a lack of caring. Especially if she isn't feeling well, step up to the plate. Exactly. I would get tired of always initiating too. You should be doing this too, OP.
Assasda Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 So this lady and I've been dating a few months and she sends me "good morning" and "good night" messages every morning/night. And I return the favor by texting or calling later on. In the beginning, when she doesn't send, it's because, she said the times she doesn't send are because she isn't in the mood. Lately, she's been sick also. She's been steady in sending messages for a month now but today it suddenly stopped. Last message I received was "love" last night. In case she is being distant, shall I still call/text today or shall I just keep cool and stay silent until she initiates a conversation? Thanks. I think this girl is really feeling you. Goodmorning and goodnight texts are really important to women. Try sending her one, some night, she'll be super appreciative
Author unagedtiger Posted March 12, 2014 Author Posted March 12, 2014 I think this girl is really feeling you. Goodmorning and goodnight texts are really important to women. Try sending her one, some night, she'll be super appreciative I see. I make sure to reply though.
kart180 Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 I have been txting with a women and she says she will come to met me but due to work she may come done in a couple yrs. She does have ex but dont like dating anyone since for some strange reason, married men are very attracted to her including a member of her OWN family She said she will change her mind
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