wesmel06 Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 So here is my situation. I've been messaging a woman back and forth through Facebook who I work with. She has a boyfriend. I don't mean to be a jerk or anything but I know she finds me physically attractive and has given me the indicators of interest like getting into my space and when I catch her looking she will look down quickly. In these various messages she flirts with me. I'll pick on her and she'll pick on me back. We'll tease each other and things like that BUT when I try to talk about her boyfriend she will comment on something else. If I try to get her to mention that she finds me attractive she will also go quiet and not admit to any of this. Basically any time I try to talk seriously with her about her relationship or her attraction for me I get nothing. I called her on it and said she comes off as mysterious and she ignored that as well. I'm not sure that the relationship is serious. I'm not sure if they have even been dating for that long. I do know though I would love to get this woman out on a date sometime. Is she leading me on because she likes the attention? Is she considering possibly upgrading? She NEVER talks about him. Won't even mention his name or anything. Is this her way of making me chase her?. I'm starting to think this guy is not even real. She messages me before work, on both of her breaks, and after she gets home from work sometimes. Isn't that a lot of attention for someone who isn't interested or is busy with this so called boyfriend? I'm a little confused. Is she not even sure what she wants lol?
sleeplessinslc Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 A relationship that traces its roots back to dishonesty and cheating is something I wouldn't want to be part of - unless I have no intention to get serious. Why would you want a girl who cheats?
mukkrakker Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Why would you want a girl who cheats? Read his other post "You see I'm 26 years old and have a huge interest in a 36 year old woman" - he just wants sex at work and thinks this is a good opportunity.
Author wesmel06 Posted March 12, 2014 Author Posted March 12, 2014 Its not just about sex. I just kind of like to know what makes these women tick. If they are going to flirt with me they'd better be serious. I don't like doing all this work and not getting paid so to speak. Real annoying. Also I didn't want to cheat. Its not cheating if she dumps the bf first guys lol.
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Probably because when you mention her bf it makes her uncomfortable because her conscience kicks in for a second lol
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