Assasda Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Sounds great, sounds like youre really excited. Keep all the excitement just a bit under the surface. When she comes up to you, give her a warm smile and tell her "Its nice to see you" Shake her hand, if she doesnt go for the hug. Women initiate hugs, at first. Get to know what she's doing, if she likes any of the teams, if she likes soccer, so on and so fourth. It would help if youre a soccer fan youself. Tell her of places that you volunteer. Important thing: If she starts talking about something she's passionate about, leave her alone and let her talk her head off, dont interupt. Leave on a good note, and get her contact info, or tell her that you'll call her to get some activities in.
Author GregMarine Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 The Sports field is pretty small, and the attendance shouldnt be overwhelming... so as soon as i arrive I will be able to see her from the parking lot... I think. Just want to know... Should I walk up to her? or should i wait for her to come to me?
Author GregMarine Posted March 14, 2014 Author Posted March 14, 2014 Thanks Alex, So I shouldnt do what my friend said... arrive there and chill somewhere, then send a message to her saying im at such and such a place, if you have time, keen to chat? etc. She was kind of off towards me a bit last night... told her my plans for the day and she said "okay!!" I dont know... she use to be so vibrant... but as people have said... I left it too long... How do I "re-ignite" her interest level again?
d0nnivain Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 I just read through the 1st posts of this consolidated thread. I hadn't seen those before. You really have to calm down. You have waaaaaayyyyyy too much invested in this woman you don't know. You come across as 15 year old high school boy with his 1st crush not a 25 year old man. If she picks up on 1/10 of the vibe that is jumping off my computer you are toast before you get started because you are too eager. As for how often to text her, not too often. Limit all contact to no more than once per day every other day would be better. One text, one call, one FB chat (& don't like everything on her page). Since she is working this event, I like parts of your buddy's idea. Get there & chill. You are going to need to calm yourself before you see her or you are going to come across like a dog humping her leg. Once you get yourself under control & spot her in the crowd, walk up to her & say hello. If she's too busy to engage at that moment, tell her where you will be sitting & go watch the game. Wait for her to finish & then come over to you. Don't text her. She doesn't have time for that while she's volunteering. You can text if you move from the spot where you told her you'd be.
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