youcanever Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Finally i have met this girl and went on a first date. It was not a usual date though. Very new interesting date. What i mean by that is, i take girls to drink something and talk have fun mostly but because of some political acts in our country it was an emotional and against government wise day so we went to a gathering walking around street, yelling against government, yell at police etc. It was pretty interesting first date, then near 10pm we went to a cafe and had coffee and then her 2 male friends came and we had great conversation and fun. I hugged her first time i saw her, offered her to put her arm between my arm while at that.gathering so "she wouşdnt get lost". Her friends liked me a lot, even told they would love to see me again. I believe she liked me too but not too much in a bf wise maybe. I slept only 4 hours before date night and worked from 8am to 6pm, also as i said we walked, yelled 3 hours. So i was pretty exhausted, so i couldnt give me %100 to her. We will not meet at least 1 week. What should i do meanwhile? Tell her i liked her and i want her as my gf, or NC for 1 week so we think about each other a lil? What should. be my move? I am very interested in her. I'd love some advice.
David87 Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Don't tell her that you want her to be your gf, make small talk, text her, throw in a couple of compliments. Initiate contact first then wait to see if she initiate it to. Defenetly don't do NC for a week.
Author youcanever Posted March 12, 2014 Author Posted March 12, 2014 Don't tell her that you want her to be your gf, make small talk, text her, throw in a couple of compliments. Initiate contact first then wait to see if she initiate it to. Defenetly don't do NC for a week. What if she doesnt initiate contact after my initiation? I let go? I want to write her something now, but i wonder what.
David87 Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 What if she doesnt initiate contact after my initiation? I let go? I want to write her something now, but i wonder what. Initiate the first contact, something simple like ''How are you'' or ''Hi'' or something usually this triggers a conversations, see how it goes. Then wait for her to initiate it, if she doesnt do it again. If the third time she doesn't initiate then wait until she does.
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