Smthn_Like_Olivia Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Definitely agree with the consensus. Cut this guy off now, or it will just continue to get worse. And don't believe the hype, once you tell him you're walking away, he's going to come on stronger trying to convince you to stay. Anyone that consumed with you that soon is falling in love with an idea and not YOU. 1
Author Mommame2 Posted March 13, 2014 Author Posted March 13, 2014 After I blocked him on FB he kind of flipped. He texted me and asked me if I unfriended him. I told him no. I blocked him for my privacy. He started back pedaling and saying he didn't want an enemy and wanted the best for me. I just ignored the text. But he also said that he had every right to know what I was doing on FB. He saw I was a member of a professional group of 58 people and said... They are mostly businessmen ... Are you telling me that none of then send you flirty messages? I just couldn't believe that he would accuse me of anything given he has no right to know these things. Crazy land.
writergal Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Didn't you say a friend set you up with this wacko? I think you need to let this friend know that this guy is nuts. 2
Gaeta Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 OP these men get off on power. If you act intimidated that will be like fuel to him. So get your big girl panties on and tell him to leave you the F*&? alone and don't hesitate to use all the conjugation of the F word you know. 2
Babolat Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Way OT..I finally replied to a message from a woman last night. She replied asking for my #. No foul no harm I thought. She texted me this morning asking me what Gods other name was. I said "I refer to him as God". She said, no his other name. I replied with the same. She said "No, it's Jesus, they are the same, you do realize that?" and then went into a long text about God, the Trinity, etc and called me a liar. Said she could never get close to me, goodbye! Said I just wanted her for sex, like all men do. WOW!
Babolat Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 After I blocked him on FB he kind of flipped. He texted me and asked me if I unfriended him. I told him no. I blocked him for my privacy. He started back pedaling and saying he didn't want an enemy and wanted the best for me. I just ignored the text. But he also said that he had every right to know what I was doing on FB. He saw I was a member of a professional group of 58 people and said... They are mostly businessmen ... Are you telling me that none of then send you flirty messages? I just couldn't believe that he would accuse me of anything given he has no right to know these things. Crazy land. Google "SNL Red Flag" and watch the video. Stalker material. Block everything, his phone, his emails, everything. You do not own him any explanations at this point. This is not about control IMHO..he has not even got there, yet. 1
soLoveIS Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 If he is that freaky in first few Dates? How FLIPPY is he gonna be when you End the Date and don't want to see him anymore??
gaius Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 Way OT..I finally replied to a message from a woman last night. She replied asking for my #. No foul no harm I thought. She texted me this morning asking me what Gods other name was. I said "I refer to him as God". She said, no his other name. I replied with the same. She said "No, it's Jesus, they are the same, you do realize that?" and then went into a long text about God, the Trinity, etc and called me a liar. Said she could never get close to me, goodbye! Said I just wanted her for sex, like all men do. WOW! That story makes me want to take online dating seriously. I could argue with a woman like that all day. Jesus isn't god.
BikerAccnt Posted March 18, 2014 Posted March 18, 2014 That story makes me want to take online dating seriously. I could argue with a woman like that all day. Jesus isn't god. Depends on what religion you believe in there. For Christians, he is. For Buddhists, Muslims, others...not so much.
Thegreatestthing Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Yes this happened to me today I was talking to the guy who kept asking me what I was looking for (didn't like that) ,then he started saying how I could be his gf but he's not sure yet ,this after I had been talking to him for 30 mins! So I have had some bizarre luck with OLD Met a guy last week who seemed so kind .. Christian. Said I didn't want to get physical right away. Etc. def used caution considering last guy. So he lives an hour away. He has driven here twice to meet me for only an hour. I told him I didn't want him to drive all this way... Considering I only had short time due to my son and work schedule. He keeps texting me about how he is giving thanks to God for meeting me. That I am the answer to his prayers. Sending me bible verses and implying that I am his gift from God. Bottom line he's a very nice man. But he keeps talking about possibly getting remarried and where we will live in 1 year etc. I have met him for dinner once and drinks the second time. He is SO into me. And I feel bad that all this texting about how he's falling for me and he sees us having a house with white picket fence...is panicking me. How of I deal with this? He's very sweet and means well. But it's just too much too soon.
David87 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Yeah and he just texted me asking for an "honest answer". Saying who are you always messaging on FB? He said I text you and you don't respond right away but then I see you on FB in active status. Ummmm. Now it's just crazy. Dinner and one drink. And now he wants to know what I'm doing on FB?! Wow, he has no right to know that information even after years of dating. The nerve he had. Forget about him. If he acts like this now think about how he will act say a year from now......... I'm speechless.
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