Ex broke up after 3 years said he did not love me anymore and was giving up?

[Baibeehgurl]

My bf well now ex broken up with me a week ago. We dated for 3 years he was in my daughters life. I was so close to his mother and everything his family treated me great. But, he said he didn't want to be with me anymore and that he did not love me anymore. He had the nerve to have sex with me in the morning and then break up that same night with me. He said there's no turning back he was just not happy with me. We would constantly fight over little things and he never trusted me. He had major insecurity issues. He used to be fat and been going to the gym for over a year now and lost weight and started getting muscles. It hurts so much because I still want to only be with him. But, I feel like he's already moved on. He also told me that he wanted to be with random girls because he thinks that will make him happy. His mom knows about everything that happened and she just tells me to talk to him how can I talk to him when he blew me off and said he's so over me. Another thing he was already seen with a girl on a date not even a week after we've been broken up. What do I do???? He hasn't contacted me in a week now . I tried to talk to him but it seemed like after his date with the girl from school he was done with me. by the way I'm 24 and he's 23. Is there hope that he will miss me? And want to get back with me? Because when he broke up with me... I texted him 2 days later and he said he though he was happy talking to other girls. Should I do no contact???

[lvroflife]

This is it what is sounds like to me:

 

You guys are young and have been together for 3 years. It is natural at your ages for one to think it would be best to date others. That is what usually happen to most 20's. Its called experiencing life. I went through this with my ex ex. I wanted to see what else was out there. I date other girls and went back to her 7-8 months later (not trying to give you false hope). We dated for 2 more years after that. Sounds like he wants to explore and you have to let him. I know it sucks and is hard, but you'd rather him do this then stay with you and cheat or later resent you.

 

Or: you stuck with him when he was "fat" (your words) and he got himself into shape. Now women are noticing him and he feels good. He loves the attention. This is wrong of him because you were the one who support him through... You were the one who was with him when he wasnt in shape. Again he wants to explore. I will tell you he will miss you, but you have to allow that to happen.

 

You must go NC for YOU. You need to heal and rediscover and regain who you are! YOU have to let go of him. That is the hard part, but you must. Let him do what he needs too and you do what you need to for you. I am so sorry you have to go through this and you are in pain. But day by day you will get better and stronger.