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Is she trying to make me jealous again? Any solotions on how to get rid of jealousy?

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Today when I was at work,I noticed that the girl ive been talking about that wanted 1,000 from me had her son there.And I saw my guy talking to her son.I dont know but I think she is trying to get him to play the father cause her husband is in another country.Right away when I saw this,I felt really jealous.I dont know,after seeing him talk to the kid,I right away felt she was doing it to get even with me.Maybe its my imagination.

 

I'm jealous and I realize I have a problem with this jealousy.I feel my life would be great if I didnt have this problem.I cant control it.Sometimes I start crying at work,cause of my jealousy.I try very hard not to let her get to me and sometimes I feel the things she is doing is to just get me all upset.How can I overcome this feeling I have?

 

I just wish for once my guy would say hi to me or at least give me a little attention.It seems like the least he dould do is say hi to me.Im always saying hi to him first.I told another worker and she says its cause I come in after him and she told me that he thinks I should be the one to say hi first cause I come in after him.What difference does it make though? I think he can still say hi.

 

I just hope he pays attention to me after I learn Spanish.I feel really left out.What should I do to make him pay attention to me?

 

Last week i brought in my pictures and showed another worker to see if he would come and ask me about them but he showed no interest.All he did was look over.

 

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Naive Established Member

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Patty with all honesty I tell you that I really do not think he cares about you.

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I agree with naive he's not intereseted. Why is this in the ow forum anyway

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Patty with all honesty I tell you that I really do not think he cares about you.

 

Thats true.I guess better days are coming.

 

Thanks.

 

Patty

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Originally posted by naive_2001

Patty with all honesty I tell you that I really do not think he cares about you.

 

 

 

 

 

I'm so sorry to say this but I honestly agree. I think that she only acts this way because he does the same back to her. I think if he did not act interested in her back, she would leave him alone.

 

You two have had sexual relations and he doesn't even say "hi" to you? :confused:

 

I know you like him a lot maybe even have feelings of love for him, but I do not think he has the same feelings for you at all.

 

 

You can do better, you can find someone who will like you as much as you like him.

 

And I agree that better days will come once you realize what was just said to you about him probably not feeling the same, is probably the truth. You do deserve better!

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I know that it's hard to accept this especially when you love that person but sometimes you have to in order to get rid of the pain. It's better to hurt a couple of weeks or months rather than years or a life time right?

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You two have had sexual relations and he doesn't even say "hi" to you? know you like him a lot maybe even have feelings of love for him, but I do not think he has the same feelings for you at all.

 

 

You can do better, you can find someone who will like you as much as you like him.

 

 

 

 

No.Not unless I say hi to him.

 

Thanks.:)

 

I know that it's hard to accept this especially when you love that person but sometimes you have to in order to get rid of the pain. It's better to hurt a couple of weeks or months rather than years or a life time right?

 

That is true.I never thought of it that way.

 

Thanks.:)

 

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I am so sorry Patty. I agree that he really isn't it to you.

I also had a sexual relationship w/ a co-worker. At first things were great between us at work. But it started fading. We stopped seeing eachother outside of work and I was so jealous when he would flirt w/ the other gals we worked w/. I finally realized that I was better than that and didn't deserve his treatment so I started dating OP. After a few weeks he realized what he was missing and things started back up again. He would start flirting w/ me and even kissed me in the breakroom. The feelings were still there but I wasn't going to let him do this to me again. When we were seeing eachother the first time I wasn't seeing any other guys and turned down guys for dates. The next time he wanted to start back up something again I didn't let myself fall into that trap again. I continued to date other guys and I went on w/ my life w/o him in it in a romantic relationship. We remained friends but I wasn't going to wait around for him to decide what he wanted.

 

You need to find someone who will treat you better. He obiviously isn't going to. And don't let this other gal get to you, that is what she wants.

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If she gets really bitchy, find a way to some how accidentally have her hand slip into the deep fryer......

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am so sorry Patty. I agree that he really isn't it to you.

I also had a sexual relationship w/ a co-worker. At first things were great between us at work. But it started fading. We stopped seeing eachother outside of work and I was so jealous when he would flirt w/ the other gals we worked w/. I finally realized that I was better than that and didn't deserve his treatment so I started dating OP. After a few weeks he realized what he was missing and things started back up again. He would start flirting w/ me and even kissed me in the breakroom. The feelings were still there but I wasn't going to let him do this to me again. When we were seeing eachother the first time I wasn't seeing any other guys and turned down guys for dates. The next time he wanted to start back up something again I didn't let myself fall into that trap again. I continued to date other guys and I went on w/ my life w/o him in it in a romantic relationship. We remained friends but I wasn't going to wait around for him to decide what he wanted.

 

You need to find someone who will treat you better. He obiviously isn't going to. And don't let this other gal get to you, that is what she wants.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks.It really helps having people to talk to.I feel a little better.

 

Patty

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Patty,

 

I have been a member here for about four months. You have been dealing with this guy and girl s**t all this time, if it were me, I would be drained mentallyby now. How are you dealing with this outside of the LS family?

 

I think you work in a restaurant.? Would it be to difficult for you to seek employment elsewhere?

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