shvrk Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I've waited months to meet this guy again. We met once, and he won't meet again until May. One day I was bored, jumped onto the online dating site, just to see what was out there & what I could be missing out on. I ended up meeting this nice man and he really is a nice guy. My problem is that he's 15 years older than I am, and I told him I didn't want anything serious, but when we hang out it's pretty fun, good conversation and he even said that he'd get me from work & yadda yadda if I needed... I don't wan't a relationship, & this seems cool. We could fool around and ****, and it seems just simpler. What should I do with the other guy? Like what should I say? I feel bad just to cut it off but sometimes he's just too depressing, and never really listens to what I need to say as far as what I think we would need to do in order to work out. Yet with him, he's constantly telling me that he wants to make love to my mind, & not my body... that's also fine but it sucks when he just says "whateverrr" over some ****. Maybe I'm not ready for a real relationship. I'm 19. This is all weird to me. So now I'm just rambling to you Loveshack people... Which I what I normally do when it comes to these type of things. I just feel like I'm cheating, I suppose.
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Why won't he meet until May? It doesn't sound like the "make love to your mind" (so cheesy makes me want to hurl) guy isn't investing much in a relationship with you. So I wouldn't feel like I owed him much. Move on! Besides all that cum on your brain wouldn't be good for you anyways!
deathandtaxes Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 I don't think the older guy wants anything serious from a 19 year old such as yourself. You're a trophy ****. You're not cheating on the other guy. You're not in a relationship. Have fun with the older gent if you must and make it clear your expectations of what you two are doing. I don't know what a 34 year old would want from 19 year old besides sex anyways. I'm 35 and couldn't imagine dating someone so young. 1
Assasda Posted March 13, 2014 Posted March 13, 2014 Tell the other guy that he's depressing, and give the older guy the sex that he wants.
deathandtaxes Posted March 14, 2014 Posted March 14, 2014 Sex and a babysitter for his kids? I want to double like this!! But seriously, I just couldn't ponder dating somebody 15 years my junior. What would I have in common with a 20 year old? I'm way away from post-secondary education. I've already been married. I have a career I enjoy very much, and which enables me to do a lot of other activities I enjoy. And there are tons and tons of attractive women my age. Anyways...OP, so you say you're not ready for a real relationship. So don't have one!! That's why there's dating. I would even say that you probably shouldn't be seeking anything serious at your age. Live it up!
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