Brokenman 5 Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 My GF of 3 and half years left me in the middle of January ive tried to move on but it hurts.Im trying Non contact now for its my 5th day nowand its getting harder and harder. My story of of our romance began 4 years ago i met her online i was 33 she was 20 she was an ex pat who lived in spain i knew back then it was a big age gap, but we got on well , then one day we met and we both fell in love,we'd meet up now and again, her coming over to see me every 3 months. She dind mind coming over here has she was getting to know her father who was seperated from her mother, you see she used to live over in spain with her mother and brother. So has time went on she moved over here more and we spent more time with each other. I mention this part of the story because its a factor in why we split.You see the last time she went over this time she changed and said that she wanted to stay over there with her mother and she misses her life outthere and her friends and going out ect..so she became distant and made me say for us to split up...it was because she was ignoring me on whats app and was out with her friends all the time when i was waiting over here like a dutiful boyfriend, then she just turned on me..the next day i said i was sorry but she kept it up and ever since then she's gone further away from me.I so regret saying those words to her, but weeks after she said she wanted me to say it.She wanted to remain friends and got upset when i said i cant...then she was happy when i said ok ect... She recently came back home to get some of her stuff and usually she meets me at the airport, but she came over here unanounced and stayed only a week were normally she'd stay for a month or so..she couldnt wait to get back...we did meet up for a day to discuss our split and we stayed together for a day..she kept getting upset saying there are too many memories around the places we went, i hugged her and she hugged me so tight and made me cry too, but she was still adamamnt in going back...again she said she wanted to be friends and when i agreed she was yet again happy and cheered up, after our day we parted and hugged and she let me kiss her on the cheeks. After the meeting she talked to me a lot on fbook on her new spanish fbook seperate from the old one , she told me she had it due to, me commenting on who she speaks too ect..and also she said its for all her spanish friends ect..they are all spanish none from Uk or anywhere, its like shes cut off everything that isnt spanish, very strange.Anyway she speaks to me a lot on there and said she was glad she saw me and put Muah on the end of it and went to sleep..breadcrumb much... So forward 2 weeks and the conversations on fb have been up and down..one day she's ok the next doesnt want to hardly talk.Ive gone a week not contacting her because ive got sick of the false hope and she pops up and asks how i am. The last time i spoke to her i told her i was getting a job and a new haircut ect.. and she was acting like she didnt believe me..after she got the information she went weird and said im happy for you..good good, ect..and i replied and said im moving on well, and i said ive got a new haircut and going to the gym...after that convo she didnt reply...come today she puts a new fbook pic up of her looking like she's been to the carnival, she looks glum in the pic..weird..another breadcrum, i think she put the pic up because ive not contacted her over the weekend and im on my 5th day. She wants me to chase i think but when i do i get treated bad. I gave that girl everything and she's acting like this, i treated her well looked after her, but she turned around and went back home blaming me for her missing out on her friends and her mum and brother..how can somebody just go from loving you lots to acting like this, is it Gigs ? I love her so much will she come back....answers please Day 6 awaits i hope i can do it and not contact her , fingers crossed
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