heggs Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Hey guys and girls, Im one week post break after 3 years, now long story short a guy mate (friends or what we wish to call him) they have been talking, heavy flirting, talking dirty.. I managed to over hear a converstation Im interested to know what is going on here? Rebound? Broken hear-ted looking to heal?... So confused On the up hand I feel better knowing.. I feel more set free now.
BC1980 Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 You'll never really know for sure what is going on because you can't get into another person's head. Someone who can go from a 3 year relationship to dating that soon is either lying to themselves about their recovery or simply wasn't as emotionally invested in the relationship near the end or even at all. My advice would be to focus on you because even if you had all the answers about her, it changes nothing. It would not matter one bit for you. 1
Mr Scorpio Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 I'll tell you what is going on here. You are torturing yourself by actively keeping tabs on your ex. You are dedicating attention to someone who has apparently moved on. Stop it. I know you're in hell, but you won't get out by exposing yourself to fresh pain. 2
mtnbiker3000 Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Not that it will help, but she probably started this before the breakup with you?!?! 1
Author heggs Posted March 12, 2014 Author Posted March 12, 2014 Quite sure it did start happening before the break up, im not actually fussed I was just curious.. That said and done time to move on in life 1
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