Gaeta Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 10 years ago I was 38 and he was 24. He had just graduated law school, he was very arrogant, he could talk the talk, and he had set his mind on seducing me. I was freshly out of a relationship and welcomed the attention of young man but It never got off the ground, my daughter at the time was 17 and she strongly rebelled against our age difference. Of course I picked my daughter; I was not going to build any wall between my only child and I over a man. Fast forward to last year. Him and I met by coincidence in the metro. He recognized me right away and interpreted it as destiny. He was now 33, I was 47 and my daughter was now a young woman not interfering in my dating life. Him and I went for lunch, he was leaving right after for a 2 week vacations and said he’d call me upon his return, which he never did and life went on. A few minutes ago he saw me on a dating website and called me. He apologized for the way he disappeared last year; he said he was just out of a relationship and his head was not screwed on properly. Now he sees more clearly and wants to see me again. At first I told him off for the way he never got back to me last year. He apologized profusely, but I still hate the fact he pulled a disappearing act on me. And, he's still 14 years younger than I.... What do you think?
HappyLove Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I think the age doesn't mean anything. At least now you're both in better places. I say go for it! Why not?
Michael91 Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I am surprised that a man would be that interested in a considerably older woman because most men are subconsciously predisposed to be attracted to good baby makers; i.e. girls 15 to mid twenties. But, other than some knowledge about evolutionary science, what do I know?
Author Gaeta Posted March 11, 2014 Author Posted March 11, 2014 You know you want that young meat, Gaeta. Don't deny it. lol, I swear it's not about that. I have been on tons of dates that lead nowhere, I am getting over a man pulling a disappearing act on me after 6 months dating. Is this another dead end considering his actions from last year.
Author Gaeta Posted March 11, 2014 Author Posted March 11, 2014 I am surprised that a man would be that interested in a considerably older woman because most men are subconsciously predisposed to be attracted to good baby makers; i.e. girls 15 to mid twenties. But, other than some knowledge about evolutionary science, what do I know? I find that very interesting as well. I do not go for younger men but they come after me. Majority of men contacting me on a dating websites are between 33 and 43 (I'm 48). No one believes my age though. I never smoked, never drank, never partied, I guess now I am collecting the benefits of a healthy life style.
HappyLove Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 lol, I swear it's not about that. I have been on tons of dates that lead nowhere, I am getting over a man pulling a disappearing act on me after 6 months dating. Is this another dead end considering his actions from last year. His actions is a flag but there's really no way of knowing until you give him a chance. He could be saying the same about you since in his eyes he may feel like he didn't deserve being dumped the first time.
MidwestUSA Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 You know you want that young meat, Gaeta. Don't deny it. Nah, it's that the young ones want us older, experienced, uninhibited women who go after what we want. 1
slizl Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 He isn't into you, but he wants to bang. If that's what you want, go for it. 1
preraph Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 If you're interesting enough, some younger guys will like you. But if you're looking for commitment, it may be a waste of time. Younger guys always liked me, but they weren't about to marry me.
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