unlucky_inlove Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I've finally reached the breaking point with my ex. He's completely deleted me from his life. He's blocked me from Facebook and even blocked my phone number. I ran into him at a concert this weekend. He actually said hi to me but instead of saying hi back, I just looked at him and ignored him and walked away. Apparently that was enough to delete me from his life. The thought of never talking to him is really upsetting. Is he ever going to forgive me? I don't know what to do anymore.
KaliLove Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 It's hard to say without the full story of what happened, but it sounds like what you need to do now is walk away.
Author unlucky_inlove Posted March 11, 2014 Author Posted March 11, 2014 Here's a brief background. Everything was great between is but then he got distant. I had a slight problem of excessively texting him and it drove him to not see me as a friend. We agreed to be friends but I could tell he was still avoiding me. I tried the NC thing several times but I would not get two days in a go righ back to texting him. He said he just couldn't get over my "crazy side." Even though when we would see each other out in places we always said hi to each other and briefly spoke. I guess now I just drove him too far.
KaliLove Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 (edited) Sounds like you have a bit of an obsessive/co-dependent streak that you need to take care of. Have you thought about therapy? I don't think you will be able to break those old habits without some help, and I don't think he or anyone will want to date you if you don't. Work on yourself before you try another relationship, with him or anyone else. If you truly do work on yourself and work on fixing your issues, you never know what might happen in the future, but for now, it's best for both of you if you just let him go and go NC. EDIT: This is not meant to be offensive..there are TONS of other people out there with the same issues and I am in no way criticizing you. Edited March 11, 2014 by KaliLove
Author unlucky_inlove Posted March 11, 2014 Author Posted March 11, 2014 (edited) Honestly yes I have thought about therapy. I just haven't gone the extra step of going to see someone. I just feel like I lost one of my best friends. Edit: I took that in no way as a criticism so no worries. I'm always open to advice. That's why I came here. Edited March 11, 2014 by unlucky_inlove
KaliLove Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 That's how everyone on this part of the site feels. You'll make other 'best friends'..trust me. But you need to work on yourself before you'll be ready to do that.
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