SoulSearcher22 Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I started talking to this girl about 2 and a half months ago. We text every day but not so much during the day time. It's more so at night time because of our jobs and school. But she takes like 10-15 minutes to respond each time. I'm not saying she needs to be constantly replying to me right when i text but you'd think she'd reply quicker if she was interested. Anyways, she's flaked out on a few things we've had planned in the beginning and what not but we mostly hang out once or twice a week. But it's usually just hanging out at my place watching a movie which we generally ignore and start making out and then having sex. There doesn't seem to be more to our relationship than just that. I'd rather take her out to a movie or dinner or some other date type thing. But I mean, she'll call me sweetie, babe or hun and she'll usually text me first the next day. I just wanna know if this girl is interested in more than just having sex because I am. I want a more than that. Some side notes: - She asked me a few weeks after we started talking what I thought about her so far. - This past weekend was the only weekend she planned that she followed through on so far. We went out to eat with two of her friends, then drinks then dancing and then we slept at her place. We hung out most of the next day being lazy with each other. I dunno, it' all just seems so mild and extremely casual.
PegNosePete Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Why don't you ask her? In real life or on the phone... NOT TEXT 1
TXGuy Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Expecting a text response faster than within 10 or 15 minutes seems extreme. I would already consider that a quick response. She could be doing things around the house like cooking, folding clothes, or reading a book and needed to get to a good stopping point before responding. If you want to make yourself feel better, just assume that she is glued to her phone waiting for your next text. She spends the first five minutes calming herself down from being excited to hear from you. She spends the next five to ten minutes crafting her response to you. My view is you are over thinking this.
Author SoulSearcher22 Posted March 11, 2014 Author Posted March 11, 2014 Expecting a text response faster than within 10 or 15 minutes seems extreme. I would already consider that a quick response. She could be doing things around the house like cooking, folding clothes, or reading a book and needed to get to a good stopping point before responding. If you want to make yourself feel better, just assume that she is glued to her phone waiting for your next text. She spends the first five minutes calming herself down from being excited to hear from you. She spends the next five to ten minutes crafting her response to you. My view is you are over thinking this. LOL i like this. Yea i probably am. idk.
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