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Is that acceptable? and if a girl you're seeing does that too you, you should call her out for it right?

 

Well that's what i did and the argument ended with her saying she never wants to speak to me again. She turned it on me. :laugh:

 

 

Her reason is that she has a lot on, and has no time for herself let alone anyone else. It takes 30seconds to reply to a messsage.

 

Am i in the wrong? Not really sure what to do now :mad:

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Is that acceptable? and if a girl you're seeing does that too you, you should call her out for it right?

 

Well that's what i did and the argument ended with her saying she never wants to speak to me again. She turned it on me. :laugh:

 

 

Her reason is that she has a lot on, and has no time for herself let alone anyone else. It takes 30seconds to reply to a messsage.

 

Am i in the wrong? Not really sure what to do now :mad:

 

Who is this girl? Are you dating? ( for how long ) more info needed.

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*A girl I've been seeing for about 6 Months

 

*We saw each other Saturday night everything was fine she asked me if i was free to do something with her this week

 

*The Sunday evening i WhatsApp her saying I'm free the Monday and if she's available too

 

* She messages me Monday evening saying she's sorry for delay but she's busy at the moment and if we can we re arrange

 

 

 

The reason i highlight WhatsApp is that with that App, you can see when some is online, well she was online may times after i messages her and she even found time to change her picture and status.

 

When i called her on it, she she said she was busy and had a lot on. This turned to an argument with he bringing up all kinds of **** like shes been going through a lot etc, and ended with her saying she never wants to speak or see me again.

 

Was i wrong to question her?

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In my opinion you were wrong because if she found time to change her picture that doesnt mean she has time for a date or what you guys have planned.

 

Just say that you're sorry. Maybe she wasn't busy and she was flirting with another dude on whatsapp but you don't know that.

 

My gut tells me that this is a small thing and you overreacted.

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