deathandtaxes Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 I have not sent the message. He got mad because he wanted to discuss about his feelings and I wasnt available to talk. He felt I cut him off and went with my friends. Hes also upset the I confide to my friends more than to him. I realized my faults and I want to fix it. What a poor little baby that he can't handle you wanting to have your own friends and do things without him. Let him indulge in his childlike antics of giving you the cold shoulder and just not give a flip about him for a few days. Kids these days....
Author MissNoname Posted March 12, 2014 Author Posted March 12, 2014 What a poor little baby that he can't handle you wanting to have your own friends and do things without him. Let him indulge in his childlike antics of giving you the cold shoulder and just not give a flip about him for a few days. Kids these days.... But he encourages me to hang out with my friends more. The last time we talked he said that I should see my friends more. He said he hasnt seen his friends because he always spends time with me. Its the second day I havent talked to him.
bubbaganoosh Posted March 12, 2014 Posted March 12, 2014 Look sweetie. How many times do you have to say, "I"m sorry." I think he's having a temper tantrum so you can say I'm sorry until your blue in the face. Let him have is tantrum but if it gets to a point where it get out of hand like 5 or 6 days then don't text or call, just go over and ask him what his problem is and to be an adult and talk about it rather than a 4 year old.
Author MissNoname Posted March 12, 2014 Author Posted March 12, 2014 That's fine but since you have already apologized just a short text saying I miss you and I'm thinking about you is just as good. Really, almost anything is fine. However, I get the impression that you want him far more than he wants you and smacks of desperation and a willingness to grovel which, in the long run, is not good for you and the relationship because guys sense that and value you less. Nevertheless, I don't know the situation. Perhaps you really are in the wrong and mistreated him badly in which case a bit of groveling is good. I was wrong. I admitted it. He was right. That was the only time that he asked me to talk about his worries and I did not listen. Hes always compromising. Its always about me and what I want, the only time he asked me about something related to him, I cut him off. I feel really bad and I dont know how to make it up to him.
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