Hazelbaby Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 My boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months... we broke up 2 weeks ago and on that night i called him up crying and i just wanted him to come back and i don't know what do to. Until 4 days later he called me back telling me how much he misses me and all and he wants to get back together and of course i said yes. But the next day he said he's not sure about it again so i talked to my guy friend who he knows too and they talked about it. He's unsure of what he wants.The reason why we broke up was because im not willing to change and compromise but i was i just took things a bit slow. And he told my friend that he wants me back he still loves me but yet he doesn't want to change me even though i ensured him that some changes are necessary it just depends on whether it's worth it or not and it is to me. everyone around us are so happy that we've broken up they were all like "thank god" "finally" "good". a week has gone by..... and i called him last night and i asked him whether hes decided on what he wants or whether he can talk about us and he made it so obvious that he wants to hang up and he doesn't want to talk. I don't know what i should do. i feel like there's something behind this i feel like he's hiding something away from me but i just don't know what. and i know he wouldn't tell me. when we broke up i called his friends and all to help me but he thinks that i'm just using his friends, like guilt tripping his friends into getting us back together. i don't know what to do. i have a gut feeling that we're gonna be back together but i just don't know what to do. everyone is asking me to give up but i refuse to. i don't want to . but i feel like he doesn't even care about me anymore, he just doesn't love me anymore thats what i feel like. please can you guys please help me .
David87 Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Welcome to LS, I'm sorry that you have to go through this, but it happens. I think that you should give him space for now, don't call or text him because you'll push him further away. Give him the opportunity to miss you and then see what happens. Start NC.
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