LetsGoBlues Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Like I posted before there are a couple of hotties I see nightly at the gym. Is it okay if you walk by them to look at them and smile if they notice you? Being a guy would that make them think you're interested in them?
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I look at the women at the gym all the time. Sometimes smile at them in passing. But I'd never in a million years go and talk to them. That would be creepy...
Imported Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 If they look like they're checking you out, just go up and talk with them or just go up and talk with them unless you're 49,322. Women do like men and get attracted to men they see, even at the gym.
imatradie81 Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 There's no hard and fast rules when you should and shouldn't talk to someone, you don't know what the individual is thinking. Obviously if a woman is running on a treadmill it's not ideal to talk to her, then again there are woman on the bikes reading magazines and texting on their phones, so it's not as hard to approach them. If there's a girl you like in the gym on a treadmill for example use the one beside her, wait for an opportunity to say hello.
Esoteric Elf Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Like I posted before there are a couple of hotties I see nightly at the gym. Is it okay if you walk by them to look at them and smile if they notice you? Being a guy would that make them think you're interested in them? When this happens, I immediately look away as fast as I can.
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I've always found the gym a super easy place to talk to new girls. It just has a relaxed vibe. Make a joke about form or ask for advice on the crunch they're doing. Unlimited possibilities. Just make sure you: Are not coming off as creepy and be funny/witty!
topaMAXX Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I say go for it. I know married couples that met at the gym. I'm usually really into my workouts, but either way, I haven't seen many attractive women at the gym. A few here and there maybe. Either hotties don't go to my gym or my standards for looks are really high (either is possible).
pickflicker Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I wouldn't want people approaching me at the gym. Frankly, if you look gorgeous at the gym, you're not working hard enough. 2
topaMAXX Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I wouldn't want people approaching me at the gym. Frankly, if you look gorgeous at the gym, you're not working hard enough. I think I look my hottest after a hardcore workout.
pickflicker Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I think I look my hottest after a hardcore workout. I see so many people (usually women), wearing expensive workout gear, on the treadmill barely breaking a sweat. Run faster, girl! As for guys, they do look hotter, for sure. Personally, when I work out I look exhausted. I wouldn't want a guy approaching me, I'm at the gym for a reason. There are plenty of other places to meet people.
Noproblem Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Just say hi and talk A little bit, but don't be pushy. Make them know you, talk a little bit and then go. They are there to work out, but they wouldn't mind a little chit chat
Imported Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I see so many people (usually women), wearing expensive workout gear, on the treadmill barely breaking a sweat. Run faster, girl! As for guys, they do look hotter, for sure. Personally, when I work out I look exhausted. I wouldn't want a guy approaching me, I'm at the gym for a reason. There are plenty of other places to meet people. You meet people everywhere. No matter where you are, you probably think you have a "reason to be there." The bar, the club, the supermarket, outside of your home. If you're not game, than you are not game. But don't think that other people aren't. With the right guy, everywhere is the right place. Hey, I am at the gym to workout too, but if I see a girl I like, I am going to invade her personal space and talk with her. It's not a big deal and has almost always worked out well for me, but I usually only take note of women that notice me. You have @75 years of life. @30 you hit your prime. @40 it starts going down hill. Sometimes you don't even have that much. Unless she is at a funeral for a loved one, go for it. The gym if off limits...really? It's a meat market there. Lots of horney girls at the gym. 2
Revina Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 There are some girls who go to the gym to check out hottie guys.
Author LetsGoBlues Posted March 11, 2014 Author Posted March 11, 2014 I rarely ever see guys talking to girls at the gym unless it's their friend or spouse with them same with the girls. If you approach them they will be creeped imo. They never notice me and I'm there everyday and I don't see any girls looking at me. Should I act like Quagmire?
movingbackwards Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 To me this all depends on your personality. I'm outgoing and pretty goofy. I can get a laugh on a first meet no problems. That's always a good impression to make if you can make a woman laugh. My approach, although I would lie a bit, would be to see her after a workout and ask her if she was in my 'cycling class' or at the 'early morning cardio class' or etc...Haha, knowing she wasn't say,"Wow, you have a twin!" and then on to either a) introducing yourself or b)telling her she should go with you some time. Any activity you are in at the gym that could be invite worthy would be good to break the ice. I would not, however, do this but after seeing her quite a few times. Maybe walk by and smile a few times and then break the ice. No problem! Be confident and accept rejection with ease and you'll have no problems!
pickflicker Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 You meet people everywhere. No matter where you are, you probably think you have a "reason to be there." The bar, the club, the supermarket, outside of your home. If you're not game, than you are not game. But don't think that other people aren't. With the right guy, everywhere is the right place. Hey, I am at the gym to workout too, but if I see a girl I like, I am going to invade her personal space and talk with her. It's not a big deal and has almost always worked out well for me, but I usually only take note of women that notice me. You have @75 years of life. @30 you hit your prime. @40 it starts going down hill. Sometimes you don't even have that much. Unless she is at a funeral for a loved one, go for it. The gym if off limits...really? It's a meat market there. Lots of horney girls at the gym. 40, you start going downhill, huh? Hardly! 1
Imported Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 (edited) 40, you start going downhill, huh? Hardly! Going downhill doesn't have to be negative, but once you get to the bottem....it's over. And most people are not going to live past 80, so yes 40 you start going downhill. And I am not a little kid. There is still plenty of fight left in me, but I am not blind to the writing on the wall. I am in better shape than pretty much 99 percent of other guys out there, but regardless of that.....life is catching up. Edited March 11, 2014 by Imported
Author LetsGoBlues Posted March 11, 2014 Author Posted March 11, 2014 To me this all depends on your personality. I'm outgoing and pretty goofy. I can get a laugh on a first meet no problems. That's always a good impression to make if you can make a woman laugh. My approach, although I would lie a bit, would be to see her after a workout and ask her if she was in my 'cycling class' or at the 'early morning cardio class' or etc...Haha, knowing she wasn't say,"Wow, you have a twin!" and then on to either a) introducing yourself or b)telling her she should go with you some time. Any activity you are in at the gym that could be invite worthy would be good to break the ice. I would not, however, do this but after seeing her quite a few times. Maybe walk by and smile a few times and then break the ice. No problem! Be confident and accept rejection with ease and you'll have no problems! You mean like following them out of the gym to their car when they're leaving? 1
mangetout Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 There are some girls who go to the gym to check out hottie guys. I work out a sweat in the gym but I always have time to scope the men in the room. Its impossible not to look at half naked men. It actually encourages me to work out more lol BY the way I am 42 and I look great!!
melell Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Having guys looking at me when I am at the gym is a motivator, it actually makes me feel good about myself while working out, I like it. But I also really appreciate when they don't initiate conversation, and I hate having to talk if they do. So yeah, it feels good to be admired, but pursued is another story. 1
StanMusial Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 You mean like following them out of the gym to their car when they're leaving? Wait by the treadmills and watch to see who runs the fastest and the farthest. She will be the most tired and least likely to be able to get away. 2
Emilia Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 My approach, although I would lie a bit, would be to see her after a workout and ask her if she was in my 'cycling class' or at the 'early morning cardio class' or etc...Haha, knowing she wasn't say,"Wow, you have a twin!" and then on to either a) introducing yourself or b)telling her she should go with you some time. Does this really work? If someone told me I should go to classes I would feel insulted I don't mind guys talking to me in the gym and regulars I'll chat to anyway but only if I know that there no expectations placed on me. ie just because we chat once it doesn't mean every.single.time.I.see.you we have to have a chit chat. It's great to be social but I go to the gym to train mainly.
man_in_the_box Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Thank god I'm a man and I never get bothered during workouts. Sounds exhausting to beat off suitors while also having to train hard. 1
Emilia Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Thank god I'm a man and I never get bothered during workouts. Sounds exhausting to beat off suitors while also having to train hard. Avoiding eye contact works wonders. That and 'resting b*tch face'. 4
Bruce Leigh Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 The gym is for training, nothing more. Anyone deadly serious about staying in shape will tell you this. Focus is everything.
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