fifipheebs Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 need assistance decifering this friend. he does this thing where he gets really flirtatious and handsy then pulls back cuz i reckon he thinks people are watching and he gets nervous for puting too much out there and doesnt want people talking. or does he panic that he's led me on in some way? he'll say things to cover up or justify his actions after he does it. or he'll be very in my face then avoid me like i have a disease the next day. then he probly feels bad so he be running back again. its been going on for a while. we are friends. i dont understand why our mutual friends woud think him being playful with me would be a bad thing if that is what he is nervous abuot. or maybe he doesnt like me more than a friend and just wants his cake and eat it too? any input on this? is he scared of making a move cuz he cant get a read on me?
preraph Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Usually when guys are nice to you mostly in private, it's because they have no intention of making you a real girlfriend and don't want it to get around that you are a girlfriend. Sorry. Sometimes you have to look only at the actions and not so much the words. Some guys will say anything to get sex. His actions are saying he doesn't want anyone to see him pawing you.
Author fifipheebs Posted March 11, 2014 Author Posted March 11, 2014 Usually when guys are nice to you mostly in private, it's because they have no intention of making you a real girlfriend and don't want it to get around that you are a girlfriend. Sorry. Sometimes you have to look only at the actions and not so much the words. Some guys will say anything to get sex. His actions are saying he doesn't want anyone to see him pawing you. he paws me in public in front of friends. then must panic or something to then make an excuse to justify what he did. we are not bf/gf. just friends. no benefits.
Assasda Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 OP what are you doing in this situation. All you give is his side, hoping for some answers
Author fifipheebs Posted March 11, 2014 Author Posted March 11, 2014 OP what are you doing in this situation. All you give is his side, hoping for some answers I dont give in.
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