ThisisIt606 Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Let me start by saying, I've done the long term/committed relationship but right now I'm not looking for anything too serious. I used to work with this guy and he has recently been messaging me on this online dating website and fb chat and asked for my number. All messages were pretty short/ asking me to hang out. I was busy the first time but we hung out the following 2 times with his friends at a bar and then we all went out for a late night meal. Both times i went back to his place and hooked up, the first time no sex the second time sex. I am aware/understand this is friends with benefits. The first time when I said I didn't want to have sex/ wanted to go out he was like "oh you're one of those girls who wants to go out first...." So judging from that it seems like he purely wants a hookup. My main motive here is I don't want him to "forget" about me because I want to have sex with him again. What's my best move now ... do I text the night of wanting to hook up/ ask what he's doing tonight? Do I send him flirty texts during the week to "plant the seed"? Or do I just wait for him to contact? All of his contacts so far have been the "what are you doing tonight?" and we go out with his friends/ then back to his place. I just don't want to be this lame booty call for him. I want to play/ request hook ups too
GoreSP Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 The idea of a booty call is that you call each other when you are horny. If your current booty call is never available when you want to see him and he expects you will be at his feet when he calls, get a new booty call. 1
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