Inflikted Posted March 10, 2014 Posted March 10, 2014 Let's start out with some basic info about myself. I'm a 25 year old guy, I've never dated, had sex, or anything, never really been good at "flirting" or "pursuing" girls. My sense of attraction has always been a bit narrow, and I've only ever REALLY wanted to date a total of two girls; both girls, of course, rejected me. The second rejection occurred about two years ago now, and honestly, I still miss that girl quite a lot. I'm generally pretty indifferent, "romantically", to girls I come across, for the most part. Thing is, recently, I believe I've come across a girl who might be into me. I don't know if she is or not, for sure, but it's a possibility. I haven't had much of a chance to get to know her, but she seems like a really nice, sweet girl. On one hand, how often do I run into a girl that might be "available" to me? Pretty much never. So I almost feel compelled to be interested on that fact alone. As nice and sweet as she is, though, I don't feel that "excited" kind of feeling that I felt for the two girls I pursued in the past. I don't know whether that's a good thing or a bad thing. But I'm worried that I'm so obsessed with finding that feeling, that I'll inadvertently hurt this girl some how, if I date her, and I don't want to do that. I tend to "sit on the fence" like this a lot, weighing the pros and cons, until the moment is gone, and I made no action... I just can't really figure out how I feel about this girl, and about my perception of dating, relationships, sex, etc., in general. It's like, I finally have a possibility of maybe experiencing that stuff with a nice girl, but I'm worried that I'll end up not liking her as much later on down the line, and that I'll have to end things with her and make her feel bad.
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